EMOTIONS...A constructive or a destructive tool

Have you ever shed a tear from your eyes? You must be laughing on me or at least smiling. What kind of a question is this? From a new born to a dying person, each one would have shed a tear at least once in their life, if not from eyes may be in heart. Crying… 1st sign of Life… if the child doesn’t cry, every possibility is there that he is dead. Doctors make humongous efforts to make him cry.

But why does he cry? There are many theories attached to it. One - he is crying because of the memories of his past life, Two – he has been detached because he has been separated from his mother, Three – He has been brought into a new environment, four… five… six… etc. but all denote the emotional bonding some or the other way. 

We have been grown learning from our elders teaching us be strong and avoid being emotional. And don’t ever cry. It makes you weak. Emotions for you child, respect for your parents, yearning to be with them, to do something for them, passion for your lover… to love him till eternity, protection for your siblings... making them safe.

We generally don’t feel these emotions so strongly in our young days of life. I mean when we are young or when we are shaping up your life professionally it’s just maybe we ignore them. Yes, except for the emotional bonding we feel for our lover. For many that is the first encounter of strong emotions which made them ascertain the Emotional aspect of their personality. Suddenly in the second phase or what you may name as diminishing or giving age of our life (35 to 40 years), we start realising the real existence of emotions. 

Have we ever realised that whenever we do a thing, one or the other action of ours, depicts our emotional bonding towards either a person or any object. Start from getting up in the morning. Brush our teeth, take bath – care for our teeth, we eat – nurturing our body, we go to work – we love our career, we study – we love our future we want to shape it, we work according to others will – we love them.

Sometimes anger or jealousy becomes a persuasive force to make us achieve our goals. Will power also has sturdy base in emotion because we feel intensely towards the goal or a person. Isn’t it?

So, why are we taught to kill/hide our emotions or even to express them in today’s world? Why are we so afraid to love, to care, to get angry, to express empathy towards a stranger? Why are we bent upon creating emotionless robots (AI) in our society? Why did the Super Power, GOD incorporate Emotions in Human beings and made it a Universal part of them at all, if it is destructive a force? Yes emotions are a complex arena. A whole gamut of researches are going on to understand them. To make it more intricate a whole package is available ranging from sadness, fear, happiness, lust, love, pride, jealousy, empathy, anger, etc... Was it to destroy the human race? No. it was to run the world smoothly. Do we remember when emotions moved into Adam and Eve, this world was created? How can anything formed by a Super power be ugly or be without the purpose?

Time has come for all of us to realise the power of emotions. Emotions have the power to transform this world, to elevate your soul. Here I can say if "Right Emotion" is used in (1) Right Manner, used at the (2) Right Time and in (3) Right Quantity, has stupendous affects. Its late we realise that an emotionless society is leading to the extinction of the society. Commercialisation, professionalism and many other factors have generated a massacre on the Emotions of people at large. 

Let’s enjoy the beauty of variety of emotions in the Mankind. Different colours, shades, of emotions spread over the world. Enjoy a mother scolding her child, or lovers discussing intensely. Don’t ever be afraid to share your emotions. Be original, be transparent. Let’s evolve with them and use them for the aids of the Society, the mankind. Some people are proud introverts but if you share your emotions, aren’t you sharing a part of your soul with other person? If the other people are genuinely neutral and you are important for them, they will surely understand you. Just remember that by expressing emotions you are only fulfilling the ultimate motive of the super power, you are using the most powerful entity that he has bestowed upon Mankind. Not only most powerful but the most UNIQUE peculiarity of being a “HUMAN BEING”.

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