Your Best Possible Life? 1.Know Yourself. 2. Understand Life, 3.Master Adversity and Be Good at Managing and Using Your Brain, Emotions and Thinking.

You see, it is better to start thinking about living your best possible life because it centers power on yourself and takes away the pressure of comparing yourself with others in the name of #success. If your definition of success is based on comparing yourself with what others have achieved, you will never be very happy, confident and joyful in life because there will always be someone who has more than you or doing better than you or who has something better than what you have. You will always feel like there is something missing in your life when in fact those missing things are coming from your comparing yourself and others. Wait! Wait! I am not saying it is bad to admire those who are "more successful than you" in areas of life that are important to you. It is very important to have role models. But looking at the more successful as role models is different from comparing yourself with them. I am talking especially in material and money-based success. And let me clear also;

It is good and important to have as much money as you need in life; then after that it may be worth going after as much money as you want but this must not be your all-consuming goal because you can miss a lot of other great things in life today and in the now. Listen,

1. Your real life is always now! This minute! This moment!
2. How you are feeling right now is as important as what you think you will feel after you have achieved your success if you maintain your idea that you want to be happy when you have achieved this or done that. But I am telling you that if you are going to sacrifice how you are feeling right now thinking you will be finally happy when you have achieved this or that you are creating a big disappointment. Let me tell you;

You must understand that feeling good is about your brain, your body, your thinking and your emotions! This is it! If you cannot feel great and happy without "success" then do not delude yourself that it will be dramatically better when you have "succeeded". Live a successful today by finding happiness and joy in today's things the way you are and what you have.

3. What you have today is what you have for real! What you want to have tomorrow and ten years from now is a dream, a desire. It is important to celebrate what you have today while waiting for what you have set to have tomorrow or some years down the line. I am saying;

Be grateful for what you have today no matter how small or inferior you think it is.

List all the things that you have today and be grateful for them. Give thanks always. And there is always something to be grateful about. Let me say it differently

Live a life of gratitude

Now the big thing is this. There is no other secret formula to real success other than the following;

1. Make it your goal to live your best possible life and to get the best possible of what life has to offer. Do it legally, morally and ethically though.
2. Define your own personal definition of success
3. Seek and pursue your greatness-it is the ultimate source of true and lasting joy, happiness and wellbeing.
4. Know yourself as well as you can.
5. Invest time and even money in understanding life including why you are hear as an individual.
6. Master the skills to deal with life adversities because adversities are part of everyone's life. You will certainly need the skills at some points in your life
7. Be Good at managing and making the best use of your brain, emotions, thinking and mind.
8. Be ambitious and learn to spot, identify and seize opportunities.
9. Seek advice but make your own decisions-It is your personal life
10. Put wisdom ahead of knowledge.
11. Mind your own business but also be useful to others.
12. Always be learning, training and developing.
13. Lead, follow or get out of the way
14. Get out of the crowds

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