Embracing Your Second Act: A Journey of Purpose and Fulfillment
Manoj Mathew FIIHM
Senior Vice President Operations at Tamara Leisure Experiences Pvt. Ltd.
It's intriguing how the second innings of our lives can be misconstrued as a semi-retirement phase, often associated with taking it easy. For most of us, the first six decades are marked by regimented routines, chasing career goals, and fulfilling family commitments long after office hours.
However, I've discovered that the second innings can be truly exhilarating and brimming with excitement. It's about breaking free from the shackles of the past and relishing a renewed sense of purpose with considerably less pressure on ourselves and our actions.
Transitioning into this phase necessitates a shift in mindset and a deliberate effort to change ingrained habits that have become second nature. The initial months can be introspective, occasionally accompanied by a sense of guilt for not conforming to the old norms. Nevertheless, the commitment to one's goals remains as fervent as ever, and the focus becomes sharper with fewer distractions and reduced external expectations.
Navigating the second innings requires careful consideration, as much hinges on what you aspire to achieve. Selecting the right profession or organization is crucial, ensuring that their values and purpose align with your personal and professional objectives. It's imperative not to compromise your well-being, both physically and mentally, during this phase. The second innings isn't about a paycheck but rather the value you contribute to your chosen organization, a phase dedicated to giving rather than receiving. Remarkably, the satisfaction, interactions, and newfound sense of purpose surpass what you experienced in your first innings.
Challenges in the second innings often stem from internal biases and past experiences that we unwittingly carry forward. Recognizing and curbing these biases early on is essential for personal well-being.
In your new role, your age and experience will position you as a sought-after advisor. Practicing active listening and focusing on understanding, rather than immediate responses, becomes paramount, although admittedly, it's easier said than done.
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So, relish your second innings, an opportunity for continuous learning and unparalleled experiences. It's a phase where you can give back, shape your legacy, and find a profound sense of fulfillment.
MD, Outbound Marketing and Connect Worldwide India. The agency provides Sales, Marketing and PR solutions specialising in hospitality, tourism and lifestyle. We also rebuild lives through Annapurna Charitable Foundation
1 年This could be me speaking. Thank you Manoj Mathew
CEO | Independent Family office Manager | India's top Mutual fund Distributor for Ultra HNIs with 25+ years of experience | Program Director for Sangamam, an initiative of SFPI
1 年Good balance with work and life. Lovely insights. Great article.
Senior Assistant Maintenance Manager & Department Head at VARU by Atmosphere, Atmosphere Core, Maldives
1 年"Practicing active listening and focusing on understanding, rather than immediate responses, becomes paramount, although admittedly, it's easier said than done" I copied the above statement from your article, which I liked the most. Manoj Mathew Dear sir, Thanks for emphasizing this... Most essential??
Owner, amadeus academy of music
1 年Well said and Truly inspiring ??
Director - IIHM Bangalore & Head -South ,IIHM . BCIC Karnataka Co-Chair -Expert Committee :Travel , Hospitality & Tourism & Management Committee , Director Young Skal - Term 2024-26 - SKAL International Bangalore.
1 年Very well articulated and inspiring ,Manoj . Thank you for sharing