Embracing the GRAY

Embracing the GRAY

My daughter has thick, dark hair (which I sported myself in the past!).? My mom has good looking silver hair. I am in-between with gray hair emerging. I have a confession: I wasn't exactly thrilled at first.

The daily mirror check turned into a mental calendar for my next dye job. But then, six months ago, I hit a turning point. Can I accept the true color of my hair?

This became a chance for self-discovery. What was it about the gray that bothered me so much? Gray hair is often seen as a mark of wisdom in men, so why not for women too? Who defines what beauty looks like?

Slowly, I started to appreciate the unique in-between shade my hair was taking on. It wasn't black, it wasn't white, it was simply mine.

This journey taught me a valuable lesson: acceptance.? We often crave black and white answers in life, but the truth is, there's a beautiful spectrum of gray in between.? And once we embrace that gray, it's incredibly liberating.

So, here's to the in-between! It might just be the key to unlocking a whole lot of freedom in our life, too. Life is rarely black and white. We often find ourselves navigating the in-between stages, both in our careers and personal lives.

Jill Mead

Senior Director, TechOps Strategy and Operations @ Foot Locker | Relentless advocate for creating streamlined internal product experiences for employees and the customers we serve.

11 个月

Yes! I am embracing the gray! I love this post.

Muxiang Pajerski

National MarTech Project Manager at Marsh McLennan Agency | PMI DASM | Public Speaker | Podcaster | Book Editor | Vlogger | Kindness and DE&I Advocate | Mentor | Lifetime Learner

11 个月

Hope Yanling Yin Love your article as always, Hope! It's so enlightening, inspiring, and insightful! The wisdom you draw from mundane and ordinary aspects of life sets you apart as a thinker and thought leader, distinguishing you from the average working professionals. Thank you for the thought-provoking inspiration!

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Alyssa Lehl, M.S. MOL, Ed.D. (ABD)

Assistant Vice President | RCA Professional | ORM Technology Exec Risk Oversight | Chief of Staff - Women in Technology BRG

11 个月

I appreciate all the perspectives here, but above all things I encourage leadership to embrace legacy. It is critical to our workforce to ensure there is deep knowledge as well as a historical perspective in technical leadership.

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