Embracing Confidence and Authenticity in Relationships
Jason Wang
Ph.D/ MBA / CEO/CFO/Manufacturing/Renewable-Energy/Fin-tech/Business Serve/USA
Abstract: This article delves into the intricacies of human interactions, shedding light on the tendency some individuals have to overexplain themselves in an effort to seek approval. It emphasizes the importance of trusting one's feelings and being authentic in relationships. The article also touches upon the idea of chemistry between individuals and the acceptance of imperfections as part of the journey.
In our daily lives, we often find ourselves in situations where we feel the need to explain our decisions and actions, whether it's to strangers or close friends. This urge to elucidate often arises from a deep-seated desire to make sure others don't misunderstand us. But, as we delve deeper into this behavior, we begin to realize that most of the time, these are personal matters, and we don't need validation or approval from others.
We find that the act of excessive explanation can lead to feelings of insecurity and a lack of self-confidence. It's as if we're handing over our power to others, making ourselves appear unsure and hesitant when we speak.
On the other hand, if we observe people who exude an air of self-assuredness, they tend not to overexplain themselves. They possess a certain calm confidence that comes from within, a confidence that doesn't seek external validation.
So, are you the kind of person who feels the need to explain themselves in every situation? It's time to reflect on whether this rings true for you. It's important to remember that in most cases, your actions and choices are entirely your prerogative, and others do not hold the authority to pass judgment.
The next time you find yourself on the verge of providing more detail than necessary, take a moment to ask yourself, "Do I really need to explain this? Is it necessary?" By reducing unnecessary explanations, you'll embark on a journey to become a more confident, self-assured, and open individual in your interactions with others.
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Moving on to another phenomenon – the persistence to explain ourselves to our own conscience. This occurs when we feel discomfort in a relationship, perceiving a lack of genuine treatment. We often feel the need to find irrefutable evidence that we bear no responsibility for the situation, even though it might be trivial. This exercise involves meticulous analysis and a deep desire to prove that we are morally impeccable, a behavior that often leads to excessive self-blame and the quest for perfection.
But why are you so hard on yourself? Why do you insist on being an "impeccable victim"? Your feelings matter. It's crucial to believe and respect your own emotions, making them the ultimate standard in your interactions. If you feel offended or unhappy, it's because you are, and there's no need to constantly rationalize it or view it from the other person's perspective.
In conclusion, embracing confidence and authenticity in our relationships begins with reducing the need for over-explanation. Trusting your feelings and valuing your own emotions is paramount in navigating the complex web of human interactions. It's important to remember that the chemistry between individuals varies, and you don't need to force relationships that don't resonate with your true self. By understanding and implementing these principles, you'll not only improve your interpersonal connections but also find the warmth of authenticity radiating from within.
Jason Wang
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Ph.D/ MBA / CEO/CFO/Manufacturing/Renewable-Energy/Fin-tech/Business Serve/USA
1 年"You exude confidence and authenticity in all your relationships, inspiring others to do the same! Keep inspiring and shining, Jason!"