Embrace Your Passion Without Guilt—You Deserve It.

Do you ever feel like you can conquer anything life throws your way, yet when it comes to pursuing what truly lights you up, you hesitate? Have you ever wondered why it’s so much easier to do what’s expected of you than to follow your passion, even though deep down you know it would bring you immense joy?

Just recently, a client of mine shared a story that I think many of us can relate to. She used to struggle with something as simple as taking a break from her busy schedule to enjoy a tickle fight with her son or to plan out Halloween decorations together. These small moments brought her so much happiness, yet she found it incredibly difficult to fully engage in them. She felt that she should be doing something more "productive" instead, something that aligned with the endless list of work responsibilities on her shoulders.

As a busy, high-achieving woman, you’ve likely proven to yourself time and again that you’re capable, resilient, and dedicated to fulfilling your responsibilities; you can outwork anyone to solve any problem! But when it comes to shifting from what you have to do to what you want to do—something that feels like true purpose, growth, or passion—do you find yourself wrestling with guilt?

Why is it that we so easily give ourselves permission to prioritize others, meet expectations, and handle the “must-dos” of life, yet we hesitate to embrace our own desires? We’ve been conditioned to believe that our passions and needs are secondary, that pleasure, abundance and even self-care must be earned, and that spending too much time or money on ourselves is wrong, shameful, and excessive.

But here’s the truth: You are worthy of your needs, passions, and purpose. You don't need to justify your desires, nor do you need to work yourself to the brink of exhaustion or sacrifice all of yourself to “deserve” them.

It’s time to question those old beliefs and embrace what truly excites you—without guilt, without hesitation, and without needing anyone’s permission. Your passions are not just valid; they are essential to your fulfillment and well-being. When you follow what genuinely lights you up, you create a ripple effect that benefits everyone around you.

So, I encourage you to take that bold step. Start small if you need to, but start. Honor what feels good, what excites you, and what makes you come alive. You’re not just allowed to—you’re meant to.

You deserve a life that not only looks good on paper but also feels deeply fulfilling. Don’t wait for the “right” time to pursue your passions. That time is now.