Embrace the Chaos

Embrace the Chaos

Have you ever consciously chosen to embrace a world of chaos? It sounds like an odd choice, but some time back, I felt compelled to spend a month of my life traveling through India.

India is exotic, mystical, and full of magic! So many great thought leaders come from India.

It is also the land of paradox. Beauty and ugliness. Opulence and starvation. The extremely rich and absolute poor. Plus, extreme comfort and extreme discomfort.

So, it was a leap of faith to jump in and immerse myself in what felt like an utterly upside-down world of beauty and chaos, but I had to experience it for myself.

I came back from that month with a greater understanding of life itself and of my work in empowering leaders to excel in their work and leave a legacy that makes a difference.?

Here are three things I have come to understand.??

  1. You have less control than you think: Driving around New Delhi is like jumping into a raging river filled with canoes paddling at top speed. It sounds counterintuitive, but in order to survive the natural chaos, you have to relax and abandon your need for control.
  2. Letting go of control causes you to live more in flow: When you learn to trust yourself more, overthink less, and take actions in the moment, it serves as a gateway to completely new experiences and opportunities.
  3. Driving on Indian roads teaches you that safety and security is an illusion: We can resist jumping into that raging river to feel like we're safe, but what we are really doing is putting our lives on hold.?

As a middle eastern existentialist once said, "Fear does not prevent death. It prevents life."?

Having experienced this for myself, it has gone beyond just an understanding. I now get in my bones, and you can too.

That's what has people with an inspired purpose go from living a safe life to becoming their own force of nature.

You really can feel refreshingly alive and at peace while navigating the world out there.?

If you know you have been holding yourself back, living a disappointingly safe life while knowing in your heart that your big dreams don't live here in your comfort zone, then let's talk. Let's find your inspiration.


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Tanya Slingsby

COO and International Philanthropy Advisor. I help families, foundations and companies with social impact OKRs.

1 年

Spending a prolonged period in India twice in my 30’s shifted my mindset and global perspective. Embracing chaos and surrendering to uncertainty’s ubiquitous presence in our lives allows us to life richer, more vibrant lives!

Lane Gardner

Speaker I Author I Founder at Thread Connects, Inc. | Award Winning Arts Educator

1 年

Love this Tony Martignetti ! I resonated with the idea of FLOW. Interestingly, creative expression puts us in the flow:) thanks for the repost of our awesome interview!

Pam August, MA

President at Connecting Potential

1 年

Love this! My husband and I were in India in April and the way I describe it: 'in all of its contradictions it is completely enchanting,"

???? Ben Baker???

STRATEGIC Communications Leader | Empowering you to evolve, grow and prosper in an ever-changing world. | Big Picture and Tactical | M&A, Change, Mission, Vision, Purpose, Profit, and Goals focused.

1 年

"Fear does not prevent death. It prevents life" is a phrase that most people should learn and embrace Tony Most spend their time worrying about what might happen instead of appreciating what is happening.

Michael Riegel - ACC, PMP

I help technical leaders thrive and partner with business owners to support and engage their teams. Author of The Little Book of Big Ideas for Construction Professionals and Build Like the Big Primes

1 年

I have not been to India but I can recognize that dynamic in other places and situations. I have also adopted the approach that there is opportunity in chaos -- if you can remain calm, maintain perspective, and remember your "why."

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