Embrace change

NOTHING WILL CHANGE UNLESS YOU CHANGE.?

It is easier isn’t it to blame the weather, the milk man, the government. It is not easy to take responsibility for your own life, your own mistakes. Many times, I listen to people calling other people lucky. Are they though? How can we know their life story? Not everything is on social media I am telling people.?

Your life will change if you start taking responsibility for yourself. I am not saying you are not, but you know what I am talking about. If you don’t like your job and nothing will change it is a dead end, then what are to you waiting for? Nothing will change, most probably you will get sick because if you are spending like 1/3 of your life in a toxic environment then I think that will eventually have an impact on your health and your relationships.?

Have you ever seen a happy person start yelling at everyone and be angry all the time? I don’t think so. It is the person who is not happy with their life and they have to blame someone else. If you can make some changes in your workplace then have a chat with your line manager. They are not mind readers and sometimes we judge people before even asking them. If you talk to your manager and nothing changes then at least you will know that you have tried.?

I get it you might feel scared to make a change, but I will ask you this.

What do most people regret?

Staying in a toxic environment because you were scared to change or because you didn’t dare to change? Maybe something better is waiting for you. I always wanted my life to be an adventure, and sometimes people tell me you are lucky. No, I am not, I made a choice. I choose life and that is deeper than you think for me. It was a tough choice, it was a lonely journey, but I am accountable for my choices and proud of my journey so far.?

Just remember that we are not immortals, and nothing is given to us. We are warriors even that we show up every day. Think how you would like your life to be and then slowly see what you can do to get there. There is always a way. Maybe you might need to change your perspective. It is not the weather; it is how we see life. Your focus will define your life. If you are focusing on what you don’t have then you will always have that empty feeling.

Love & light

Nadia?