THE ELOQUENT LIFE OF FAILURE
The driving force of a familiar characteristic is complacency and excepting that life is what it is. As quick as you succeed is as quick as you can fail. Being able to see the difference is a thin line in the sand. The average person lives with the ongoing feeling that they have no control over what the future holds, where success comes from, and how they JUST CANT CATCH A BREAK, I AM JUST NOT LUCKY, I DESERVE MORE, ITS SO UNFAIR, THEY OWE ME. So I ask you what if you changed the way you think, act, and perform. Mindset milestones would be I WILL CREATE MY BREAK, MY LUCK, MY GOALS, MY FUTURE.
Life is odd because of how you view the cards that are dealt. It is easy to view the cards on either side of the fence, A failure can be negative or positive and a success can be negative or positive. If one was to fail and you hang you head and make up excuses of why and you let it push you down then your failure has become your control. If you fail and you look at it as a lesson and push forward, adapt and try again then your failure becomes a driving force for success. The Biggest reason people live with failure is because they do not know how to change their attitude, focus, and future. Fear controls the future, I cant divorce my wife, I cant quit me job, I cant afford to, I do not know how to, I cant, I wont, all negative statements creating negative results. Now in retrospect if you conquer fear you would answer these statements with its time for change, I will find a better job, I will make more, I will learn how, I can, I will and you will succeed.
SO WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING LIVING WITH FAILURE, WHY THE HELL WOULD YOU CHOOSE TO CONTINUE TO LIVE THAT WAY.
Pick you damn self off of the floor, embrace your potential, and build the future you dream of. I live in fear everyday that I am not working hard enough, I am not performing well enough, I waste to much time and instead of letting the push me down I use it as motivation to push ahead. Life is an opportunity that is limitless and all we do is limit ourselves. Why not dream like a 5 year old, execute like a professional, and live like you deserve it, need it, want it and bottom line will get it. The opportunity, knowledge, education and skills lay before us through books, conversation, school, experience and life long lessons of failure and success. Why settle for small success when winning feels so damn good. Tell me the last time you lost and you were like Damn that felt good. You may be happy with the try but now it is time to push for the win. When you buy a scratch ticket and you win two dollars the average person fells success and that is just a lie. That is what you call luck and a mediocre failure. Now wake up and kick ass and take names all day and in everything you do, earn that extra hundred, find that special girl, get that promotion, win the race, loose the weight, put down the candy, and kick failure in the teeth.
Positive energy, a great mindset will build a future to be proud of, a future you family will be proud of, a future of unbelievable potential. I do not gauge success with money because I believe that is also a lie. I gauge my success on how I move forward through the day, month, year and my life. YES I have failed and YES I will fail again but at the end of the day I WILL SUCCEED and so will you. Nothing is worth dong unless you do it 100% and you do it with conviction. Growth, success, and love are things you should utilize in every aspect of your life. With growth, success and love being applied equally to you job, life, wife, family, hobbies you will see success flourish around you. I guess what I am saying is when approached with adversity hit it head on and don't be scared to go for the WIN.
I offer my life and lessons as education to the many and the few. If all you need is a push please reach out to me. I spend hours to even days within each month working with friends, family, and acquaintances to help provide the tools to build success. I wrote this article to intrigue the people that need help the most becuase your success may be your failure. At the end of the day weather your are rich, a CEO, a manger, a wife, a father that does not mean you have succeed.
BE You, BE Bold, BE Your Future
#WildBill
Assistant Director of Coaching Dublin United Football Club
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