Elevating Success: Embracing Support in Your Career Journey
Allison Creed, Ph.D
AI L&D Expert | Language Scientist??Simplifying Wine | Coach ICF ACC - Empowering educators & organisations to turn AI technology into learning design solutions.
"Asking for help is an act of service. Don't deny the people around you the honour of being there to support you." - Simon Sinek
This insightful remark by Simon Sinek invites us to challenge a commonly held belief in professional settings: the idea that seeking help indicates weakness
Contrary to being a weakness, asking for help is a pivotal aspect of both personal and career advancement. When we seek support, we are not just enhancing our own development; we are also fostering opportunities for collaborative engagement and shared learning. This article delves into the impactful role of coaching and mentoring in career development, illustrating how it benefits not only the individual but also cultivates an environment of mutual support and enriched teamwork.
The Role of Coaching in Career Development
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Transformative Impact of Career Coaching
A Story of Overcoming Career Plateau: The Case of Sarah
Sarah, a marketing executive, found herself in a career plateau. Despite her experience, she wasn't advancing and felt demotivated. I worked with Sarah to explore underlying issues, including her reluctance to take on more significant challenges due to a fear of failure.
As her coach, I employed various techniques, such as metaphor and mindset, role-playing, and confidence-building exercises to help Sarah overcome her fears. We also worked on expanding her network and improving her visibility within the industry through speaking engagements and article publications.
As a result, Sarah not only gained confidence but also became more visible in her field. This newfound confidence and visibility led to her being offered a leadership role in a high-profile project, which she successfully executed, eventually earning her a much-deserved promotion, and breaking free from her career stagnation.
??Try a free confidence building exercise ?? I use in my coaching practice (end of article). Let me know if you find it useful.
The Mutual Benefits
The Reciprocal Nature of Coaching and Mentoring
While the primary focus of coaching and mentoring is often on the benefits received by the coachees or mentees, it's crucial to recognise that these relationships are far from one-sided. Both mentors and coaches stand to gain significantly from their roles, making these interactions mutually beneficial. Let's explore how these roles contribute to personal and professional growth for both parties.
Enhancing Leadership Skills
For mentors and coaches, guiding others is an excellent opportunity to hone their leadership skills. Effective leadership
Engaging with professionals at different stages of their careers allows mentors and coaches to stay abreast of the latest industry trends and challenges. Younger or less experienced professionals often bring fresh perspectives and knowledge about new technologies, methodologies, and workplace dynamics. This exchange of information keeps mentors and coaches informed and can inspire innovative approaches in their work and personal development.
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Sense of Fulfillment and Personal Growth
There's a profound sense of satisfaction that comes from helping others achieve their goals. Mentors and coaches often describe their roles as immensely fulfilling, citing the joy of seeing others grow, overcome challenges, and succeed. This emotional reward can be a powerful motivator and contribute to a deeper sense of personal and professional fulfillment.
Building a Professional Network
Mentoring and coaching relationships also expand one’s professional network. These connections are not limited to the immediate mentor-mentee pair but often extend to their respective professional circles. This networking aspect can open doors to new collaborations, partnerships, and opportunities that are beneficial for both parties.
How to Seek and Offer Help Effectively
Seeking Help Without Embarrassment
Being an Effective Mentor or Coach
Conclusion
In echoing Simon Sinek's words, "Asking for help is an act of service. Don't deny the people around you the honor of being there to support you," we see the profound impact of seeking and offering help in our professional lives. It's a testament to the strength of collaboration and the power of collective knowledge. As we embrace this ethos, we cultivate a culture of growth, support, and mutual respect in the workplace.
??Call-to-Action
I invite you to share your own experiences with coaching and mentoring in the comments. How has seeking or offering help shaped your career? For those interested in exploring coaching services or discussing these themes further, feel free to connect with me via LinkedIn or private email through my website at creedcoaching.com . Together, let's continue to build a community where seeking and offering support is not just accepted but celebrated as a cornerstone of professional success.
Free Confidence Building Exercise
??Try this confidence building exercise ?? I use in my coaching practice! Let me know if you find it useful ????
Achievement Timeline Exercise
Objective: To help individuals recognise and appreciate their past successes, thereby boosting their confidence in their abilities and accomplishments.
Description:
Impact: This coaching exercise is powerful in building confidence because it provides tangible evidence of the individual's abilities and successes. I love watching my client visually mapping out their achievements and reflecting on the skills they utilised. They are often surprised and empowered by how much they have accomplished, which in turn boosts their self-confidence and motivates them to tackle new challenges.