Eight Reasons Why Being Fired Can be Good for You
Ziad Melhem
Cross-Functional Dynamo | Maximizing Potential & Leading Change | Boundary-Pushing Professional
You just received those dreaded words that make you feel like you are living a real life nightmare; your boss has just told you, "you're fired." Your initial instinct is to panic because you have bills to pay, a family to feed, and no more paychecks coming for the foreseeable future. Losing your job is not the end of the world, and there are several reasons why losing your job can actually be a good for you.
Reexamine Your Life
While being fired can be a scary life change, it will give you the opportunity to rediscover who you are as a person. Seize the moment and reexamine your life. You can finally figure out what you want to be when you grow up and create a plan to reach this goal. If your former job made you miserable, find a new and exciting career field and make your journey through life more enjoyable.
Access Your Needs
There is nothing like losing your source of income to make you stop and think about what you really need in life. Research where your money goes and cut out any spending that is not necessary. If you have a once a day Starbucks habit, are a smoker, or enjoy fancy dinners at night, these are expenditures that you will need to consider doing without for a while. Get creative and figure out how to be self-sufficient so that you can meet your basic needs without spending more money than necessary. You will learn how to save money and you can carry these valuable new skills with you for the rest of your life.
Reduced Stress
If you had a job that sent your stress levels soaring, enjoy some peace and solitude while you venture out on your next career journey. Losing your job can be less stressful than going to a job that you hate. Take some time to collect your thoughts and work on your health so that you will be ready for the next opportunity that comes your way. You may find out that you are less stressed out and can focus on the things you need to accomplish.
Work on Your Goals
Now that you have some extra time available, focus on creating goals that you can achieve in the future. The hustle and bustle of a job sometimes makes it impossible for people to focus on what they really want in life. Take the opportunity to write out your goals and make plans for achieving them. In the end, you may find that your life is much better since leaving your former job.
Reconnecting with Others
Life is busy and it is hard to keep in contact with those you care about when you are being bounced around like a ping-pong ball in the career world. Take the opportunity to reconnect with people with those you have not spoken to in a while. Your friends and family will appreciate you reaching out, and you may even get some job leads in the process. Do not be ashamed of the fact that you lost your job, instead, shout it out to the world so that others can help you land your dream job. If you are feeling down about no longer having a job, let others raise your spirits once again.
Educate Yourself
The world is full of things to teach you about and while you are looking for a new job, take some time to learn as much as you can about topics that interest you. If you are looking to branch out into an entirely different career field, research and explore until you find your calling. If you can't afford tuition at a local college or university, find some free classes in your area or even online and take advantage of them. You will benefit from being a smarter person by the time you go back to work.
Work on Things that Interest You
If you have a lingering home improvement project or hobby you have been meaning to get around to working on for years, this is the perfect time to finally finish what you started. You can clear your mind for a while and take pride in your accomplishment. Some of the best ideas happen when people are thinking of other things, and you could very well brainstorm your next big move in life when you aren't even thinking about it.
Appreciate Life
While you are looking for work, take time to appreciate the small things in life. You will get a better understanding of what happens in your community while you were normally at work, and will gain knowledge in the process. Get involved in your community and do some volunteer work so you can have social interaction with others. If you love the beach or the great outdoors, go on a long walk or hike and see what the world has in store for you that day.
Being fired happens to the best of people and does not need to feel like the worst thing that has ever happened to you. Instead of winding up like a spring in a frenzy of panic, take some time to think about all the reasons why being fired can be good for you. This is a time when you can reconstruct your whole life and have a more enjoyable future with an even better career.