Edition 3: You are the creator of everything.

Hello!

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What I want you to know, if nothing else in reading this newsletter, is that you can’t be truly happy and have what you want if you don’t sometimes slow down to become aware of what you are creating and what you are not creating.

In my work as a life coach and mentor, a common theme I notice is that people aren’t aware that they are always creating, and they are responsible for creating what they don’t want and what they do want.

To create what you want, it’s often game-changing to see how you are already creating what you don’t want so you can make the changes that are going to make a real difference.

As I sit down to write this, I have a feeling that for some of you reading, it will be the most powerful thing you will read in the coming days/weeks or even months.

The theme is:

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(This is where I am running the intensives with my clients, take 30 seconds to enjoy the peace. Powerful things occur during this time, rest and deep thought combined with space for coaching creates immense results as you'll notice as you read on, feel free to get in touch with me to talk about creating your very own intensive with me, it's wild)

Last week, I did a short 1-day intensive with a client, and in slowing things down, we answered some questions that previously she was struggling with. No answers she had found really spoke to what she needed. She found herself going round and around and this was causing frustration and a 'block' in her productivity and creativity. This had begun to show up in the results her business was generating.

This is what creating from the wild means, to know and see at the most fundamental level how you are creating the life and experience you have ??????, and then how to create what you ????????.

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I remember the exact moment the insight came on this one. She looked at me and said, “Sam, we are already all connected. That’s always been true, even with people I ‘don’t know,’ we are already connected!”

Before this insight, this person would struggle for the ‘right thing’ to say to people to connect with them in her business and life. It left her feeling lost and with

very little result. She was seeking answers in other people’s programmes,

advice, and systems, which has left her feeling lost and disempowered.

Since this insight, she has shared that connecting with people isn’t just easier; it’s

fun. There’s no ‘trying to connect’; there’s just an open heart, a relaxedness,

and ease. Needless to say, she is connecting more and more with people and

starting to see the results showing up in her business.

This is what I call creating with the Wild. The nature and connectedness with who we really are, the part we so often miss when we go about our lives day to day,

functioning in the same way, day in, day out, without really slowing down to

see how we are creating the context and content behind our experience.

It has us live bigger, fuller, bolder, and with presence and groundedness. (I don’t know if that’s a word, as my spellcheck doesn’t like it, but I’m calling it now and

saying it is…) We are aligned with life and ourselves so motivation, will power and force become a thing of the past.

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My client shared with me that they were finding it ‘icky’ to invite people into a

business relationship with them. They felt needy, rushed, and awkward and were

seeing very little result from their labour.

As a coach working with people who often find themselves in positions of discomfort, which occurs in high-performing roles, I know that when this occurs, something in their being is ‘off,’ and there’s a shift to create within that.

This is what I offered my client about this: This isn’t a question of how, it’s a question of who.

The how arrives when we know who we are, and sometimes we forget that as we are caught up listening to our conditioned mind/ego.

I invited my client to slow down and to remind themselves who they are and why they are doing what they do.

They shared with me that they love deep intimate conversation, to see clients come alive, and to help them make real lasting change in their lives. They love connecting with others, helping them see themselves for who they really are. They are here to make a lasting difference in lives.

I could see a smile and a slowing down within my client, so I asked them:

“How will you invite someone into a business conversation from THIS place?”

“Easy," they said.

This is another example of not answering the real question being asked. When we slowed it right down together, the answer was obvious and easy. After this, we explored together what they will need to commit to so that if ever this question arises in the future, they will be able to answer it with ease and clarity.

Final thoughts:

We so often aren't allowed time to be present, to slow down, and to see how we are the creator of what we want and don’t want.

Life is busy with expectations, commitments, responsibilities, and an ego that keeps us in a loop of self-created belief and limitation.

Creating space to slow down, to create a clear mind, and relax is something we often don’t afford ourselves or even allow, and yet it will always remain one of the most important things we can do as humans.

Especially if you want to be happy, have peace of mind, and still create and fulfil your desires to be successful, powerful, and creative.

This is particularly true if you have a busy life and an active mind. It’s easy to create overwhelm if we aren’t clear on how to slow down.

That doesn’t mean doing less; it means creating the capacity to do more without overwhelming yourself.

Lastly and potentially most importantly, anything you’re facing in your life, any problems, stuck goals, frustrations, or things that you want to create, are far more easily changed when you are slowed down enough to see what it is that is causing the problems or stuckness to begin with.

In seeing how you are creating what you don’t want:

·??????Frustration

·??????Overthinking

·??????Exhaustion

·??????Stress

·??????Lack of Clarity

It is very easy to begin to create whatever it is you do want:

·??????Peace of mind

·??????Relaxation

·??????The capacity to think clearly and create more

·??????Confidence

·??????To feel powerful

·??????To be in control

This month: Slow down and take a breath and if you want some of your own space to slow down and see clearly what you want to create and, what you are creating get in touch.

Sending love, S

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