"The Dust of Perceptions: A Tale of Self-Confidence
Dr Natwar Kadel
Associate Vice President & Vertical Head - Human Resource, People Strategy at Hyundai Motor India Ltd | Professor of Practice | Author | Motivator | Public Speaker | Philosopher | Mentor | Rider | Leader & Change Agent
In a quaint Indian village nestled amidst lush green fields, there lived a wise old woman named Amala. Amala was revered throughout the village for her kindness, sagacity, and an unshakable sense of self. She possessed a unique ability to see beyond the words and thoughts of others.
At the heart of the village lay a bustling marketplace, where villagers gathered to trade goods, share stories, and engage in idle chatter. However, within the lively conversations, there was a group of individuals who had an unusual habit. They often gossiped and spread rumors about their fellow villagers, including Amala.
One day, as Amala gracefully strolled through the marketplace, she overheard some villagers whispering about her. They spoke unkind words, questioning her motives and actions, trying to tarnish her reputation with their words. But Amala, who had spent a lifetime mastering the art of staying true to herself, remained undisturbed.
She continued to walk with her head held high, her eyes fixed on the path ahead. As she passed by the gossipmongers, one of them threw a handful of dust at her, hoping to see her flinch. However, Amala simply brushed off the dust with a serene smile and continued her journey.
A bystander, who had witnessed the entire incident, approached Amala and asked, "How can you remain so composed when they try to tarnish your image?"
Amala replied with a knowing twinkle in her eye, "You see, my dear, the dust they throw at me is not a reflection of who I am; it's a reflection of who they are. I cannot control their thoughts or actions, but I can control my response. I choose not to let their perceptions define me."
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The bystander was astounded by Amala's wisdom. From that day forward, he learned the invaluable lesson that it's not what others think or say about you that matters, but how you choose to react. Amala's unwavering self-confidence and her ability to rise above negativity left a lasting impression on him.
As time passed, the villagers began to see the stark contrast between Amala's unwavering self-assuredness and the fleeting judgments of those who gossiped. Slowly but surely, they realized the power of authenticity and the futility of trying to please everyone.
In the corporate world, too, there exist individuals who engage in office politics, spreading rumors and trying to tarnish the reputation of their colleagues. Amala's timeless wisdom extends to this domain as well. The key to dealing with corporate politics is to remain true to your values, focus on your work, and not allow the perceptions of others to define your worth. Just as Amala did in her village, you can choose to rise above the negativity and let your authenticity shine. In the end, it is those who engage in office politics who find themselves isolated, while those who stay true to themselves ultimately succeed.
In conclusion, Amala's tale teaches us that, whether in a quiet Indian village or a corporate setting, the power of authenticity and self-confidence can help us navigate the challenges of life. We cannot control what others think or say about us, but we can control how we react. By staying true to ourselves and letting the dust of others' perceptions blow away, we can create a world where authenticity prevails, and those who engage in negativity are left behind on their own dusty path.
Assistant General Manager & Team Lead - HRBS at Hyundai Motors
1 年Superbly scripted & narrated ??
Nicely narrated, will definitely help to come out of negativity.
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1 年Simple and powerful story. Well written. Thanks for sharing. #selfconfidence
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1 年Thanks for sharing. Very useful.