The Duchess, the Silent Struggle, and the Solution
Brant Menswar
High-Energy Keynote Speaker | Best-Selling Author | Expert in Employee Engagement & Leadership Development | Inspiring Accountability & Connection to Organizational Goals to Drive Extraordinary Growth
The recent announcement by the Duchess of Cambridge, Kate Middleton, regarding her battle with cancer, caused a seismic shift in public discourse. Prior to her revelation, the public had been swirling with speculation, conspiracy theories, and wild accusations about her absence from public appearances. In retrospect, these conjectures now appear insensitive, misplaced and just plan mean. This incident serves as a stark reminder of the silent struggles that people might be enduring.
Across all sectors, leaders should recognize this as a lesson in empathy, understanding, and support. The silent battles fought by team members, colleagues, or employees might often go unnoticed or are misunderstood. In light of Kate Middleton's brave revelation, it's essential that leaders consider how they can better support their people.
Here are three key ways:
The speculative narrative that surrounded Kate Middleton prior to her announcement underlines the importance of open, honest, and non-judgmental communication. Leaders can foster a culture where individuals feel safe to share personal challenges without fear of speculation or judgment. Confidentiality, empathy, and respect should underscore all such communications. Regular check-ins, team meetings, and personal sessions can be instrumental in initiating these conversations.
Providing comprehensive support systems is another vital step in helping individuals navigate their silent struggles. This could include employee assistance programs, mental health resources, or wellness initiatives. Leaders can collaborate with HR to implement and promote these resources. It's equally important to ensure that individuals know how to access these support systems and feel comfortable doing so.
A culture of empathy and understanding provides a supportive environment for individuals to show vulnerability and express and address their struggles. Leaders can lead by example, sharing on a personal level, demonstrating empathy in their interactions, prioritizing people over productivity, and inspiring their teams to do the same. Recognizing that each person's struggle is unique and may require individualized support is key to fostering this culture.
The intense speculation and insensitivity that preceded Kate Middleton's cancer announcement is a stark reminder of the challenges individuals face when dealing with personal issues. Leaders have an opportunity to use this lesson to enhance their support systems, encourage open communication, and foster a culture of empathy. By doing so, they can help create an environment where everyone feels heard, supported, and valued, regardless of the silent battles they may be fighting.
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Brant Menswar stands at the forefront of corporate transformation, masterfully equipping both organizations and individual trailblazers to navigate the current work landscape and ascend to new heights of performance. He is a best-selling author, certified in the Psychology of Leadership from Cornell University, named one of the country's top speakers, and is well on his way to achieving his goal of helping 500,000 people discover their non-negotiable values.
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8 个月Thank you for sharing, Brant Menswar. There is a grace in providing support and empathy during hard times. Your words are so helpful.
Author | Educator | Former: Apple, Wix, USC | Public Speaker | From the classroom to the corporate world I work with teams to create cultures of innovation begin with a culture of empathy.
8 个月This absolutely had to come from you! Every single conversation on today's state of affairs and I find myself coming back to your work every single time. great piece
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8 个月Great points. Two other things I think about: 1. “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all.” Clearly we cannot always do this when we endeavor to improve ourselves and others. But HOW you say things has always been important. In the context of musing and conjecture of the fortunes of public figures… how much does anyone gain by publicly deriding someone? Is such behavior truly worth it? Would those seconds spent flaming someone be better invested into making someone else feel uplifted and valued? Of course they would. 2. “The Fundamental Attribution Error.”: I’m not a psychologist, but this seems the core of most misunderstanding: We think we know how others think—but we don’t. Assuming or attributing any emotions, motives, or values to anyone else is a risky proposition. Ascribing motives to a person we only see in snippets could be indicative of lack of empathy, or too much time. A young mother dealing with cancer struggles to process the devastating news with her family. That so many turned that story into a circus should give us pause. The lesson for leaders is to understand just how little we may know of the lives of others, and how much impact kindness and respect can have on those who struggle.
Marketing Communications Manager at MHEDA
8 个月This is such a great article and excellent insight. Thank you Brant for sharing these important ideas.
High-Energy Keynote Speaker | Best-Selling Author | Expert in Employee Engagement & Leadership Development | Inspiring Accountability & Connection to Organizational Goals to Drive Extraordinary Growth
8 个月Here is a great post by my dear friend Dr. Sabba Quidwai that inspired this week's newsletter. I love her heart! https://www.dhirubhai.net/posts/sabba-quidwai_katemiddleton-mentalhealth-activity-7177032428778115072-3zp3?utm_source=share&utm_medium=member_desktop