To Be A Dreamer In Nowadays Society - A Blessing Or Curse?

Imagine yourself picking up a new temporarily home for self-discovery and growth. Among all planets in the Galaxy you see this greenish- blue, juicy, unusual planet full of wonders and limitless abundance. And you choose it as a “playground” for the upcoming years, a playground in a good meaning…?

You come here full of potential, with the spirit that has no limits, mind that can transform a reality, and physical body that blesses you with all the sensations, feelings and emotions.

And you are thinking, here we go, let’s test my magic!

But as soon as you arrive, you constantly hear: “No! Don’t do it! It’s too dangerous!”, “Stop it! Good boys and Girls are not behaving this way!”, “It’s embarrassing!”, “You’re just a dreamer!”?

Conditioned and wired, passing all limiting beliefs and misconceptions from generation to generation, we shrink, disconnect with our truth and develop “a small person syndrome”.

When we are constantly said that our wishes, desires and dreams are irrelevant, does not make sense and in general are not important, we have a tendency to suppress them, push away. And as an adult who were meant to CREATE, we are in a constant mode of surviving, because in reality we don’t know anymore what do we really want.

Being a dreamer can be a curse for those who chose the path of blending in, fitting in in the rooms that are too small for them, doing work that is limiting their true potential. From the first glance, it looks like a safe, pragmatic, adult decision - follow what is said, accepted, and encouraged. But if you dive deeper, you can notice a cold of many years suppressed emotions, claustrophobic despair of not being able to get out of social box, and a tiny hope of “one day, I will…”

But if you are brave enough to listen to your heart, turn of the broken radio of voices that bring your spirit down, ready to spread the wings of your potential, you find your blessings! It only feels like it’s a constant discomfort of pushing yourself from the comfort zone. It’s only at the beginning it feels unusual to do the things you’ve never done before. It’s just a perspective and attitude when it comes to other’s opinions, thoughts and judgements.?

And you know, as it is said:?

“Your attitude is like a flat tire - you won’t go anywhere unless you fix it.”?

Fixing your attitude, seeing your unique gifts as armours to achieve your goals, and using your dreams as a torch to go through the darkness of social conditioning, will allow you to live the life you wish for yourself.?

If I would listen to some of my “friends” that “I am too old”, “It’s a crazy dream!”, “You cannot make it!”, I would never become a World Champion. Yes, it was feeling like the most uncomfortable, pushing the limits and smashing all the beliefs journey. But did the result worth it? YES! What can be better than a feeling of a dream came true?

Or if I would follow the advices of “well-wishers”, I would never be able to build a career of my dream - travel the world, have an amazing team, the best clients and let the creativity flow.?

My tiny blog (where I interviewed 15 successful business women and leaders) turned to international business events - Independent Women Summit - then to a digital platform during pandemic. Our community documentary “The Unspoken Truth” was nominated to a movie festival in NYC.?

And here we are, with 10 global leaders create documentary series that are going to disrupt the whole women empowerment industry as we know it today, bringing a true impact and changing lives.?

Don’t be afraid to dream!

Follow your true passion!

Follow your heart!

Believe in your vision!

And the right people, right opportunities will come, right doors will open!

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