Don't wait for everything to be just perfect

There is no perfect moment. There is only now. Whatever moment you choose, if things work out, it will always remain in your memory as the perfect moment. Waiting for the perfect moment is just insecurity preventing you from taking a risk that you might lose. Go take the risk, lose if you must, win if you can. You can't say the wrong thing to the right person, and remember -- "the battlefields are littered with the corpses of soldiers who, on the threshold of victory, sat down for a moment to rest, and there resting, died."

Remember what Burt Lancaster said in "Field of Dreams," to Kevin Costner, "I thought, 'There will be other times.' I didn't realize then -- that was the only time." There is only now. There is no "then". Grab the moment while you can, you never know what is going to intervene if you do not. You're nervous? Afraid? Get past it. Do the work. Get the result, right or wrong. If you lose, you'll hurt but you'll live and you will have won the minor victory of acting. If you win, your life will be changed in ways you can't see yet. But if you do nothing your memory will always be of bitter "what ifs" and "if only" the words of cowards everywhere.

It's not too late if you start right now. Commit to making the right moment the next time you see her. Take action. Remember who you are, not the person you think you are and have become contemptibly familiar with, but the person you really are -- a good, deserving man doing what people are supposed to do, and that is seeking love and affection and companionship with a person of your choosing. Get on with it.

If you can believe in yourself you are halfway through in your aim. The worst enemy to creativity is your self-doubt.? As soon as you trust yourself, you will know how to live. Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it. Don’t wait until everything is just right. It will never be perfect. There will always be challenges, obstacles and less than perfect conditions. Get started now. With each step you take, you will grow stronger and stronger, skilled, self-confident and?successful.

Know your strengths. Power comes to you automatically. That power makes you to achieve many things in life. Understand your weaknesses also and fill it with people who can support you in overcoming your weaknesses. Grow together. Achieve the best. The "perfect moment" is always when you are ready to do something. In reality, you are waiting for yourself to get ready. When you get yourself ready, you will definitely feel the right moment. This is valid for everything, it is always an inside job.

In your situation, you get ready by telling yourself that if you like to talk to that girl, means that you are meant to do that, and the worst it can happen is that she may be surprised. But if you don't do it, the impulse will still be there hunting you, as you see already, the worst is that you may pass on some great moments & you will never know. That is true for all the strong impulses we get in life, the faster we align with our desires, the less time we waist on struggle & more time we gain with enjoying life.

Girls love guys who have the gut to tell the the world how much she means and never gives up on her even after being rejected. Give her all the attention she wants as that what we (girls) ever long for. Still don't think you have asked the right person since I am not an expert in lovey things but wish you best luck! Waiting for the perfect moment to start living is an effective way to harm our spirit. Seeking short term pleasure from illusions is a losing strategy. Because every time reality kicks in, we get crashed by it. And, as a result, we end up with more unnecessary suffering than we could bear.

Being brave and acting courageously is the best option we could take. This is how we create a strong relationship with reality. Because change contains our growth. Missing this is missing life. Waiting passively is dangerously deceptive and useless. Because, every moment offers meaningful responsibilities, and taking these responsibilities is the best antidote to delusions. So, putting our full self into our calling, is the noblest decision to make. Cheers!