Don't Miss This Critical Step in Your Job Search (or Life!)

There's more to a job search than your resume, LinkedIn profile, network or even experience. And quite frankly this might be the most important?thing to be aware of because it can easily?sabotage?you if overlooked.

That is understanding how your conditioning is impacting not only your job search, but life as a whole.

As the youngest of four children, the message I received (and have carried with me for the past 49 years) was you must take care of yourself. And to be clear, I don't believe my parents intended for me to feel that way, nor would I say my parents were negligent in any way toward me and siblings. That was just the messaging I received as a result of being the fourth child as well as a latchkey kid. I was home alone a lot and needed to fend for myself.

That conditioning resulted in me being a hyper achiever who is constantly carrying equal amounts of worry and stress (which is less than ideal to say the least!). Understanding where that hyper achiever response came from and recognizing the burden it brings is critical. Also, seeing the patterns in my life where I derived self-respect and self-validation through performance and achievement was eye opening and allowed me to choose a different path moving forward. ????

Had I not done the work of reflecting on my conditioning and how that shows up day to day, I might still be in a job that doesn't serve me. I am so grateful to be able to use the tools that were so helpful for me, with my coaching clients. Together we are able to see how their conditioning is negatively impacting their life and ways to correct for that. If you are curious about your saboteurs, I encourage you to take the Positive Intelligence Saboteur Assessment. If you want to dive deeper with your results, book a Saboteur Discovery Call today. It is truly transformative.