Don't lose a true person in search of a perfect person

Finding a true person, I don’t know which type of person you are asking about, they can be a friend, best friend or someone else, I’ll assume you want to meet someone of your nature. you should meet new people and avoid those who give you negative energy. Finding a person is easy but a true person (or loyal in simple terms) is hard but not impossible. have faith in yourself, we all have our own time to discover, everything will happen when it has to be happening.

To be true to yourself means to act in accordance with who you are and what you believe. If you know and love yourself you will find it effortless to be true to yourself. Just as you cannot love anyone else until you love yourself, you cannot be true to anyone else until you are true to yourself. Begin by not being afraid to be who you are! As difficult as it may seem at first, have the courage to accept yourself as you really are, not as as someone else thinks you should be. Do not take action or pretend to be someone else for the sake of gaining acceptance.

Many young people believe that when they do things to please their peers, such as drink when they shouldn't, or behave and party in inappropriate ways, they will be popular and liked. They go against the advice of their parents or their own common sense only to find themselves in trouble and not accomplishing what they set out to do. When you do things that are not genuine or a reflection of the real you, you will not be happy with yourself and will end up confused. You'll be confused because you won't know whom to please, or how.

Self-respect comes from being true to who you really are and from acting in accordance with your fundamental nature. When you respect yourself, others will respect you. They will sense that you are strong and capable of standing up for yourself and your beliefs. When you are true to yourself, you allow your individuality and uniqueness to shine through. You respect the opinions of others but do not conform to stereotypes or their expectations of you.

To be true to yourself takes courage. It requires you to be introspective, sincere, open-minded and fair. It does not mean that you are inconsiderate or disrespectful of others. It means that you will not let others define you or make decisions for you that you should make for yourself. Be true to the very best that is in you and live your life consistent with your highest values and aspirations. Those who are most successful in life have dared to creatively express themselves and in turn, broaden the experiences and perspectives of everyone else.

Everyone has his own perception of truth.. Suppose a person has had an upbringing full of struggles, he might see things in a different perspective than a person who has had a comfortable upbringing. Just like a person sees a glass half full whereas another sees it half empty. Similarly, it is not that you are not able to find a true person. In fact you are not able to find a person who sees and appreciates your perspective. But my friend, it is the difference of opinion that makes horses run…This adds colour to life. Enjoy the difference.

Stop looking for your soul mate and find the missing parts of you. Live your life as you want to live it. Stop trying to appeal to an imagined, potential partner. So be yourself whether that means you dress in corporate attire or resort wear, or casual clothing or more formal, or if your preference changes at different times. You don’t need to be a particular weight or have large biceps or wear uncomfortable shoes if you don’t like them. Go to the gym only if you love it, do yoga if you love it, walk or surf or cycle if you enjoy those activities.

A partner who you will be with over the long term will not make a decision about your worth based on a superficial aspect of your appearance. So tap into what feels right for you, do the activities you enjoy, wear the clothes that suit you and in which you feel comfortable. You will be far more attractive to your soul mate if you look like yourself when you meet them. If you are attracted to particular qualities in someone else, find or develop those qualities in yourself. Engage with life; accept the gifts that are offered to you. This is something I read and believe in.

Being single for a certain amount of time has its benefits. I personally experience the most growth and self-awareness during my years as a single girl, and while there are some painful and lonely moments, they all led me to a place where I could break through some of my walls and do some necessary inner work. Well I think every single person says that being single is the best…But if you go on asking people why you don’t find true love they will be telling you that this happens because you are very picky,,you love the person who don’t loves you and what not. Let me tell the only advise you should be aware of is “If you don’t feel good about yourself, nothing he does will ever be enough. If you don’t truly believe you’re worthy of love, you will never believe someone can love you .” Cheers!