Don’t let your AMBITION lead to BURNOUT and DIVORCE

Don’t let your AMBITION lead to BURNOUT and DIVORCE.

Your entrepreneurial mind is always on the next big idea, investment, business opportunity, looking are next level cars, toys, travel everything…

If your mind is not constantly stimulated, you get Frustrated and Agitated because things aren’t going fast enough to plan or smoothly.

Then you are hardly ever present with your wife and kids, and when they talk to you, you can hear them, but you struggle to truly listen.

If that is you, then you’re in the same boat as 99% of Entrepreneurial Married Businessmen.

I’m about to share with you why an Extremely high % of Entrepreneurial Married Businessmen end up with Burnout, or Divorce, or both …

So if you want to achieve all your highest Ambitious Goals whilst elevating the love and connection in your Marriage and being the absolute best role model for your kids, then you need to understand these Truths…

Fear drives your Ambitious obsession!

-????????You have deep unconscious beliefs that you are not good enough; these beliefs create the deep inner drive to strive and push for the next level of success and achievement as a means of validation and to prove to yourself that you are worthy and good enough…

-????????You believe unconsciously that the more success you create, the happier you will be, and the more people will love and appreciate you… But you put happiness outside yourself, trying to seek it in things or based on another person’s happiness.

-????????On a deep level, you feel unloved because you grew up like most, with conditional love

-????????And when you achieve a new level of success, accomplishment, or money, the happiness, love, and admiration only last a short period before the addictive, obsessive need to go again kicks in

-????????Keeping you in the cycle of Fear based Ambition!

Why does this lead to Burnout?

-????????Because your unconscious fear and feeling of never being good enough triggers conflict and disharmony with your Conscious desires, the years of compounding conflict in your mind create deep neurological stress and decline ?

-????????The compounding effect of years of neurological stress, worry, and fear has created damage in neurological structures and transmitters, over-activating the amygdala, putting your mind in a constant state of survival stress

-????????The neurological stress puts your body's autonomic nervous system into a constant state of sympathetic nervous system dominance (Fight or Flight) which in turn creates energetic imbalances in your adrenal glands, organs, and systems, wreaking havoc on your mind and body like fatigue, digestive issues, sleep issues, brain fog etc

-????????This leads to emotional imbalance, anger, frustration, anxiety, and irritation, which affects mood, relationships, decision making

-????????Ultimately preventing you from being present, calm, relaxed, and able to connect deeply with your loved ones

Why does this lead to Divorce?

-????????Because you’re not giving your wife what she truly needs, you believe more financial security will fix everything, but it's destroying your marriage because she wants you, your attention, your affection, your happiness, your love, you to listen deeply

-????????You don’t know how to give her what she needs; you’ve become a 1-dimensional success-driven, obsessive man who has no idea how to fix his marriage (Why? Because no one taught you)

-????????Your sex life and intimacy are extremely poor, so you use Porn for a release, creating more disconnection with your wife

-????????Your communication is poor, as the misalignment results in conflict or avoidance.

-????????And you feel like you are failing, which triggers and reinforces your deepest fear that you are Not Good Enough

And the cycle repeats as your Marriage and Health decline in the pursuit of the next level of Success that never delivers the promise of true happiness you’ve been looking for all along …

The above is extremely common because it’s a generational thing dominant in driven Male, baby boomers, and Gen X …

If you break free from this collective societal and generational trap that so many Men are in … Then no amount of Success and Money will compensate for your lost Health, Marriage, and Family.

Transform your life and break the Generational cycle from becoming your children's reality.

So please do something about it before it’s too late …?

Look forward to your shares

Greg

www.greggillies.com