Don't let chaos be the default mode of life

 important to try to maintain some level of organization and structure in your life, as this can help you to feel more in control and reduce stress. However, it's also important to recognize that some level of chaos and unpredictability is inevitable, and it's okay to embrace it to some extent.

There are many different ways to organize your chaos and therefore your life. The best approach for you will depend on you. Here are a few suggestions to avoid chaos being your default mode:

1. Make a schedule: One of the most effective ways to stay organized is to create a schedule for yourself. This can help you allocate your time effectively and ensure that you are able to get everything done that you need to.
2. Use a planner: A planner can be a helpful tool for staying organized, as it allows you to keep track of your schedule and appointments in one place. You can also use a planner to set goals and track your progress. There are many apps you can use for this purpose or go old school with a physical planner you can carry with you, but just make sure not to ever leave it anywhere!
3. Set priorities: It's important to prioritize your tasks and focus on the most important ones first. This can help you avoid getting overwhelmed and ensure that you are making progress on the things that matter most.
4. Get rid of clutter: Physical clutter can be distracting and overwhelming, so take some time to declutter your space. This can help you feel more organized and in control.
5. Use technology: There are many tools and apps available that can help you stay organized, such as task management apps and calendar apps. Explore some of these options to see if they might be helpful for you.

Remember, organizing your life and lowering the amount of chaos is an ongoing process. Don't be afraid to try new strategies and approaches if something isn't working for you. It’s important to be flexible and adaptable, especially when things don't go as planned. Try to find a balance that works for you and helps you to feel grounded and productive, without being too rigid or inflexible, and by doing so you can hold the chaos in check.