Don't forget to count yourself in

Be yourself but don't forget world! Because self love and self care is so important when you are all alone and it's 3 o'clock at night you are lying on floor crying alone no one is near you then you cry and shake your heads then who's is going to be there to you ? You of course you alone you have to pick you up and find strength to carry on and next day you feel little relaxed but want again strength of course you are you ,you can stand again but for whom ?

This is life and it's life two different phase everyone go through these stages one should enjoy both you can't deny the fact the world do has importance in your life no doubt before everyone else it is always 'be you'. We can be so mean to ourselves, our worst critics. And we may deserve it at the time or think we do. But we can also do better and forgive ourselves. We can always continue to be the best version of each self that we are.

Therefore, discover who you are. Live without a safety net a little to see if you're the same person in hard times. It's easy to be your best self when you clear complications from your life, or isolate yourself, or when the consequences of your behavior isn't the pain of someone else. Travel freely and have new experiences. Think of the person you want to be. Find people who have an aspect of who that is. Grow into them, then test yourself.

Whenever you're completely content to be who you truly are, or have had to work to create that self at great cost, things like the world and what it thinks won't matter. The last part is what reminds you to stay free to be yourself, once you become or embrace this self you love. With wisdom, age or experience, you realize that no one who matters cares or remembers what you do for the most part. And people who do matter care most remember how you made them feel about the things you did or how you did them. Strangers could give a crap unless you need help or make them laugh.

Most people we meet we never remember and even if we should find them on Facebook again, few are those who impact our lives. So why should we care? Why let the strangers stop you from being yourself? Now picture yourself on your deathbed. Each of your loved ones is brought to you. You're to impart knowledge and say goodbye. Those talks are rarely to admonish others for their lifestyle choices or fight about whether they should have taken your advice earlier in life. You might think your cousin should lose weight.

But on your deathbed would you waste time to say so? Is the extra 20 pounds they carry really more important than the fact that you love them? Nothing is as important. So turning that around to yourself, if someone loves you, what you're doing with your life, however you're choosing to be yourself, is secondary to them loving you. And if someone can't come to grips with who you truly are or the choices you make in life, all you can do is love them from afar.

It's always possible for someone who really loves you to not want you to be your true self. Out of fear or love, if happens. However, if you truly and deeply love yourself, you must shift your time to be spent with those who lift you up and celebrate you. The others may come around. They may not actually. But you won't be happier- or live an honest fulfilling life- contorting yourself around a lie to please them. I hope this helps you embrace your True You. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit #ks1100articles #proudtobeindian