Don't Discuss Your Personal Life In any Profession with Colleague and Boss

Many simple people discuss there personal life while gossips with the colleague they trust and don't trust unintentionally without knowing that they can affect there professional as well as there personal social life.

They can get anytime jealous of you and when they don't like you and your success they can use it as a secret weapon at that part of time where may be its your increment time or may be it is there increment time, they will get benefit from it to let down your position and gain some positive success in there professional life and to get the whole intentions towards them among others.

Now I want to share some of my personal experiences to you for the reason to put this article for you and help you knowing that why your previous company was not giving you the importance you need and appreciation for the work to find out the snake inside your arm please read my below experience.

For the first time in my life I experience it by assisting my manager and once a time during gossips he discuss about his girlfriend and unfortunately she was my cousins newly weds wife. so after enjoyment of gossips of his scenes with her girlfriend which was my cousins wife when I know it sudden he got bad portrait in my eyes because when I found from my cousins wife all the scene he created was imaginary and wrong also just a part of jokes he want to send me as a laugh but it was making someone reputation in social life a big problem and make our relation in worst situation.

Secondly my manager was in touch of my mother and my mother being a house wife discuss her personal financial problems unintentionally thinking about him as a nice person because he was portraying him self as religious guy and he was also a beard guy and have come in and out at our home at several times.

I found his real face after my marriage and he was also came in my marriage, the situation started when my typical mother starting discussing with him against my wife and her frustration against her as typical mother in law which all women's discuss with their relatives but unfortunately he was not our relative.

My mother forget all the gossips she discuss but he was spreading all the talks against me and my wife to management and staff and then he also started more interest with my personal life and trying to dig out more that what is happening with my personal life not even this he also include his wife to talk with my wife and express his jealousy and destroy our personal life.

his wife started taunted me and my mother to my wife and tell her to leave me and my manager started me to make against her and tell me to leave her when both of us, me and m,y wife discuss about the situation we find that this beard man is making our personal life a big disaster.

after he knows about our seriousness towards this matter and we are keeping distance with them and actually i have to leave the job because of that beard person and his wife but he didn't still not quit and keep us still saying inside our home through his wife to my wife that leave each other.

So to skip these types of worst managers and colleagues interfering in your life who can destroy your professional and personal life it is better to keep distance from these type of people who can try to make your separation with your wife in jealousy of your work and some frustration of not having a good wife and other qualities that your wife have and there wife don't have! that was wife was uneducated and not so pretty also keep fighting with him and wasting his money, so he targeted me to make a separation.

be aware of these guys and keep your self protected this can harm your professional life and even destroy your social life and don't discuss your personal life with the most trusty colleague and even not let them meet with your family.! who know as they will be your arm snake.

Thats for it now!

Take care and good day Allah Hafiz

Usman kaleem.

Network and System Administrator

ABM Data Systems