Don't Deny My Existence

We live in a world that thrives on diversity—of thought, culture, and perspective. It is the beating heart of innovation, the soul of art, the foundation of progress. Disagreement is not only inevitable but necessary. It sharpens our minds, pushes boundaries, and forces us to see the world through lenses we didn’t even know existed. Yet, there is a line—a crimson, immutable line—where disagreement ceases to be a clash of ideas and becomes an assault on existence itself.

Let’s be clear: Respect is not blind. It does not demand that we condone oppression, ignore cruelty, or excuse denial of humanity. Respect is not a gift freely given to those who weaponize their ideologies to strip others of their right to exist authentically.

Disagreement and Dignity Are Not Enemies

Imagine a friendship, a real one. It’s forged in laughter, trust, and mutual care. But what happens when one person says, “I don’t believe in who you are, your love, your body, your existence”? Is that disagreement, or is it violence masquerading as an opinion?

Disagreement can be beautiful when it challenges ideas without erasing identities. Two friends debating politics can enrich each other’s perspectives. A family can argue over religion yet share the same table, the same love. But when disagreement denies someone’s humanity—when it questions whether they have the right to love, to breathe, to simply be—it’s no longer disagreement. It’s destruction.

The Weaponization of Belief

Far too often, people disguise bigotry as a “difference of opinion.” They claim that denying someone’s existence is just an intellectual stance, a philosophical debate. But denying a trans person their identity, a Black person their equality, or a queer person their love is not a disagreement. It’s an act of power, an effort to erase.

We cannot, must not, respect beliefs that deny someone their humanity. The moment we tolerate oppression in the name of civility, we become complicit in the very systems that crush the souls of the marginalized.

Authenticity Is Not Up for Debate

The audacity of living authentically in a world that seeks to diminish you is a revolution. It’s an act of rebellion to say, “I am here, I am whole, and I will not shrink to fit your narrow view of the world.”

We owe it to each other—and to ourselves—to protect that authenticity. To fight for a world where people can live boldly as they are, unashamed and unapologetic.

Drawing the Line

Yes, we can disagree and still be friends. But here’s the truth: If your disagreement requires the dismantling of my humanity, we are not friends. If your ideology depends on my oppression, it is not a harmless opinion—it is violence.

We must draw the line with bold, unwavering hands. We must say, “This far, and no further.” Disagree with my ideas, but do not question my right to exist. Challenge my opinions, but do not deny my humanity. The line is simple: Respect ends where oppression begins.

The Call to Courage

In a world that romanticizes neutrality, be bold enough to take a stand. In a society that tells you to stay silent in the face of injustice, dare to raise your voice. We are not called to be comfortable—we are called to be courageous.

This is not just about living your truth; it’s about protecting the right of everyone to live theirs. It’s about building a world where we can disagree fiercely but still fight for each other’s dignity. Because the measure of our humanity is not how well we tolerate disagreement, but how fiercely we protect each other’s right to exist.

This is the line we draw. And we draw it unapologetically.

Thanks for reading,

William Rochelle, but you can call me Bill

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