Don't date any cowards before you find someone brave to love you

You find different kinds of people in the world. First, with some you are in some sort of relationship, who like to keep you in their list, however, the ones that you mean mostly refuse to have a committed relationship with you. Now, if you let someone have you without any commitment to marriage then you are the one allowing this nonsense. Women or men that allow the opposite sex to do this to them basically are the cowards. Strong women, do not let this happen because you either marry them, or you can’t have them and just leave them. But you can't have the cake and eat it too!

A coward avoids, turns from, or gives in to what he/she fears. This can take diverse forms. Lies, running away, hiding, denial, even passivity. Running or hiding does not always indicate a coward. Indeed, often running is the correct choice, and it *can* take more courage to run than to fight. It’s easy to point out cases.

Or it may be simplest to say: When the time comes, a hero stands up to be counted. A coward gives in to their fears. When that same person admits they are afraid and if only to themselves, but they do not allow fear to dictate their actions what we call that courage. When one does not allow greed or lust or sloth to affect one’s actions, we have other words. Integrity, honor, industry, duty... These virtues are all closely related. For me, integrity is the key to them all. When the heart and the mind are at peace with each other, choices are made in the light of one’s deepest beliefs and ethics. Not fear of consequences, not monetary gain, not creature comfort or personal convenience.

When a real man refuses you and he will refuse because you allowed it thus far, the next guy you meet please you do not allow him to be in a relationship with you, until he commits a marriage with you. Of course, it is cowardly to hold on to someone without giving them what they need, especially if you make promises that are regularly broken. It’s calculated and advantageous to someone who fears commitment, or fears the exposure of their double life.

It’s also absolutely cowardly to keep giving this person what they want, despite the fact that you feel like they’re using you. The fear of being alone is very strong. Just give them the boot and move on; they can only upset you as much as you allow them to, and it sounds like you need more than they’ll ever be able to give you. There are plenty of people out there who’d have no problem living an open life with you.

On the other hand, if you find a man who will only go as far as you let him and if he's keeping you as plan B but not going official with you, it's because you're letting him do it. Men will always men and choose the easier way when they can. It's up to you to set boundaries. You gotta tell him it's all or nothing - you want a serious relationship, and if he doesn't want it, you want to stop seeing him. Period. If he's a player, you bet he'll run away as fast as he can.

Although a man who keeps you hanging without commitment could be driven by fear, it’s not completely unthinkable or unreasonable. You can’t judge him by your readiness to commit. If you absolutely despise this behaviour, let him know about your struggle without undermining his character and give him a chance to choose. Then the truth will be revealed soon. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre #possessedbywritingspirit #ks1100articles