“Don’t allow your Control “

Who controls you, is a very important question which you should ask from yourself. The simple answer you will get is that, I control myself, but is that the real fact. Just sit and relax and put some pressure on your brain to identify the factors which controls you. When you will do this, the answer will be totally different . If you don’t get the different answer then just try to analyze the activities you do during the day and see what are the factors which drive your activities and I am sure you will be able to identify the factors which control your brain and body.

Even after doing all this suggested by me, if you don’t get something then let me help you. In majority cases these things are very common which controls your system

1. Money

2. You’re Past

3. Relationships

4. Limited beliefs

5. Other people’s opinion

Isn’t that so true that these factors determine our day to day action and we keep living for whole life with a false belief that we control ourselves. Don’t you think your day is driven by money not by internal happiness? Somehow we have made money as a source of our happiness without even realizing that it gives a temporary relief and we get so used to it that we have forgotten the real experience of happiness and satisfy ourselves with the superficial happiness which comes with money.

Our past always disturbs our present and ruins our future but we have become so habitual that it has become an auto function of our brain to run the past as a movie in our eyes and keep wasting our energy with this useless thing which is totally out of our control but we give our control to our past. We have to understand that past is just there to give us the learning, don’t make it your friend for life otherwise this control will ruin your active cells of brain.

Relationships are other barriers of our mind which keep our thinking in control and limit us to a restricted zone. We feel happy when someone controls us by using the relationship lock on our brain door. I don’t mind this as long as we understand that lock is stopping us to explore the world. We have confined ourselves into a false zone which might cost us our identity. That doesn’t mean that we should not respect relationships but for sure not at the cost of yourself as by doing so you will neither have your identity nor your relationship.

The biggest blocker of our life is our limited belief. I am sure you might have seen many people in life and also including yourself so many times to live the life with their limited belief. That limited belief comes with lack of knowledge and when you say no to open your mind to new things and learning. Don’t let this drive you otherwise you will not do well to yourself and others. Limited belief is like a cancer which keeps growing more and more but becomes deadly when reach at a limit .

Same is the case with other people’s opinion. This is my favorite one as I see majority people deal with them and others based on other people’s opinion not their own. I always fail to understand why we even think about what others think about me. Moreover we deal with many others based on just an opinion made by someone else. Don’t we have a little sense to understand that what is the guarantee that the opinion which has been made by others can be biased or even his judgment can be absolutely wrong? How many people even have common sense forget about the analytical ability to rightly judge a situation or a person? If you want to deal with me based on other people’s opinion then I don’t want to deal with you based on my own opinion. That is what the attitude I have carried in my life.

I don’t give right to someone opinion to drive my actions. I gather information, do my own analysis and then make a call. Stop living with what people say and start listening to your own gut. There is no better guide than yourself and your inner voice.

Folks, I am trying to learn to live a conscious life which is not driven by any of these factors. I understand it’s a tough journey but I always believe we have to start from somewhere. I have started mine, will you start yours...

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