Don’t be afraid of your wives …. Deal With Coronavirus Fears …part 69

The coronavirus, or COVID-19, is inciting panic for a number of reasons. It’s a new virus, meaning no one has immunity, and there is no vaccine. Its novelty means that scientists aren’t sure yet how it behaves — they have little history to go on.

Last week, the World Health Organization (WHO) labeled the virus as a pandemic. In the stock market and communities alike, herd mentality is taking over: people are being influenced by one another and letting emotions dictate their behavior, instead of taking a rational approach.

Stay away from social media and up-to-the-minute news. What makes the news? Worst-case stories, What we don’t hear about—at least not with the graphicness of the horror stories — is the majority of people who recover without any particular intervention. When you’re consumed by the news, mindless terror takes over.

Actively remind yourself of reasons not to worry. There are questions we use to cope with anxiety

Ask yourself: what are all of the reasons I should feel safe?

What are all of the things I am doing to make a bad outcome less likely?

Why should I not be afraid?

Reassure yourself with steps you’re taking recommended by the CDC like washing your hands and staying away from concerts and large venues. Counter your fear and be deliberate in your defense. 

From my observation:

Brilliant man wins the fight

Wise man avoids the fight.

Men are born brilliant and become wise after marriage.

We are not afraid. We value more love and relationship than argument.

Arguing leads to harsh words which will make huge damage on mental peace and relationship. Better to be silent.

In front of love and relationship losing argument is nothing. 

Men absolutely can't stand tears. Tears scare them like nothing else can.

Men hate long drawn out quarrels. Men will fight with men, but the next minute they will forget about it and will be sitting together and laughing.

Whereas that's not the case if they fight with their wives. They will have to contend with a wife who will be angry and probably not talk to him for a couple of days, because women don't forget easily.

He will have the words he used thrown back at him all his life. He will then have to spend precious time mollifying her when he would rather have spent the time doing something else.

If they disagree with their wives then there will be a long drawn out argument which they absolutely detest because they know they are never going to win it because they don't have that much patience.

Even if they did win it, their wives will make them feel that they would rather have not won it. She will also prove to him how wrong he was.

Because of all the above, men prefer to agree and obey their wives at home.

If they say 'yes' to everything they find that their lives are much easier and happier.

So it's not like they are afraid of their wives. They are afraid of the consequences and repercussions if they go against their wife.

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Thank you …We -men deal with lot of difficulties outside home, he knows how tough life is outside his home, As he has to deal with different personalities, situation and pressure. He knows, he cannot loose his battle outside home. To float this family he has to win with no second option.

But inside home loosing argument (battle) will not make any huge damage, only need to kill personal ego a bit by bit. Things will go more better way after loosing in home. Hence we pretend to be afraid.

Here word ‘Afraid’ doesn’t suits. Usually I have observed men avoid confrontation up to a certain limit. Men will afraid/scare if his character is poor.

Moreover I show more happiness when there is tension in air and also cook delicious food . Most importantly ?? I controls my hormones up to longer time.

Avoid confrontations, keep calm and make mutual decisions. Respect feelings along with privacies of each other to enjoy life.

We are born with Ego, it's the single fastest thing in our blood that keeps us competitive (as per the animal kingdom).

Clashes are bound to happen.

There is no need to be afraid of your wife. Just respect them and let them be the boss, but you being the final decision maker.

Want to add word or two?  

Be a man. She is only treating you this way as a desperate cry for help that she isn’t satisfied by you as her sexual partner.

This is her subconscious and secret way of showing her displeased she is with you. Her stress level is through the roof that is why she acts this way.

Why do you think people say she needs a good pounding. Yes it is sexist but it is also try many times. It wasn’t started by accident you know.

There is always a kernel of truth to every saying. Learn the wisdoms from the past of the ancient wireman .... way she can lash out at you for not giving her want she craves. Give it to her. Don’t suck at it though. Many man suck and they wonder why their wife doesn’t like sex. Tough men don’t argue only wussy men.

Tough men don't’ talk too much . Surprise her with occasional random special dinners you make for her with candles and her favorite flowers or whatever is on sale or you find on the street or park. Write her a special little note/poem.

Your comment ….? 

If she doesn't’ want you to be a man then you need to get away from her. She is the wrong person for you. First try to be more of a man and she if she changes her ways. I believe she will reactive possibly to the change and your marriage could be saved. If not get the hell out.

Nobody should have to leave in fear of husband or wife ever. It is because she doesn’t respect you. That usually starts with she doesn’t she you as a “real man”. Act like man and she will she respect you as a man. Hold you head up high. Don’t take shit from nobody and look people in the eyes when talking not head down.

Use loud voice and speak with a deep voice and slowly. It might sound crazy but it works. She will be the one ripping off your clothes. Tell her she’s been a very naughty girl No normal mortal human can resist this techniques the gods invented. Better than Kamasutra. You can thank me later when you have 4 more kids.