The Domino Effect
Joshua House
Dreambuilder | Senior Consultant--Technology Solution Delivery--Government Public Sector at EY | Author | Mentor
Someone once asked with all, hopefully, positive intentions implied with this inquiry: “Why do care so much about the success of others?”?
The bold and seemingly confrontational question had my immediate reflexes foaming at the mouth to answer firmly and with irritation, but I retrieved my inner self from becoming my outer self and paused and reflected allowing myself to internalize the question before responding.?
My first reaction was simple… “Because it’s the right thing to do”. This very nike-like response akin to “Just do it” derives from my consistent self-reminding—in a rather cyclical subconscious manner—that I was once the person that only yearned for a chance, an opportunity, a crumb, a slight drip from the water faucet of information, knowledge, and wisdom that would propel me into the lifestyle I wished to achieve everso greatly. I remember that guy; that young man; that teenager; that boy. I still am him to a certain degree. However, how can I be me and have achieved that which I have until this point and not help others who want to go down the same path or just were in a similar position I was once in? In other words, more concretely, how can I be blessed and not be a blessing? If anything, I am encumbered by the mere fact that others have poured into me when they did not have to in any way or fashion, to continue to share the insights I have garnered and assist them in achieving their life goals to the degree that I can.?
My more thoughtful response came through with this verbiage: “I care so much about the success of others because when I am able to help them move at least one step closer to the fulfillment of their successes I am also fulfilled.” Heavy is the heart that never once hallowed itself. Furthermore, the teacher always learns more than the student, while also the teacher appears when the student is ready. Old adages but eternally true. Who am I to sit on the sidelines of life and not pass the torch? Aren't we called to have faith in the bettering of one another? I am encumbered to just do the right thing and give those who are now walking the minefields I once travailed some forms of blueprint strategy to navigate their ways to successes more efficiently and effectively in order to prayerfully yield a better resolve than I did. Yes, I want them to earn more money than me. Yes, I want them to be in a better position in life than me at an earlier age. Yes, I want them to go to places and experiences things I was not able to because of certain sacrifices that had to be made in order for me to progress in the manner I wanted to in the time I wanted to. Yes, I want them to be more whole by the time they reach the mountain peak of their goals. And, no, I do not want anything in return. There is no secret hidden agenda covertly masquerading around in my efforts secretly yearning for a return on investment. Well, actually, yes. There is one agenda point; one thing I do require of them…that when they are in a similar position; when they are top-dawgs, they do the same thing I am doing with them now. They must also give back to those that are hungry too that are younger in the processes of life than they are. People helping people. It’s a beautiful thing.?
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All this has come rushing to the frontal lobe of mine due to the most recent update I recently received that the 15+ of students I have been strategizing with since their earlier times at my alma mater have all received full time offers and/or amazing placements at top graduate schools. I reflect on my journeys with them all but I also reflect on my own journeys and how I once was them and some individuals who were where I am now reached back and poured into me. Some of which being: Matthew Thomas , David Yi , Scott Beck , Scott Camillo , James FX Payne , Cordell Carter, Esq. ?? , Michael Akin , Jevin D. Hodge , Terri Broussard Williams , Nickel Jaramillo , Andrea Mersmann , Jennifer Bush , Janice Walker , Dr. Kyra Shahid , Lauren White, MA, LPCC-S , Millard House II , Cherylyn Harley LeBon , Anthony Gonzales , Matthew Watley , PHILL BLACK , Eldridge Allen , Jason Jackson , Kelsey Edwards , CISA , Keira Harris , and Cathy House . People helping people. The dominoes that fall with graces. Success always leaves footprints. My mother used to tell my 2 sisters and I this statement before we went off into a challenging situation, “Go find the Gold!” I am proud to say my 15+ friends have truly found and are finding the gold—couldn’t be prouder.?
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (Supervisor), Mentor, Consultant, Ordained Minister, Youth Advocate
2 年Man this truly touched my heart! I am grateful to have played a small part in your journey! I always knew you were destined for greatness! I am so proud of you!
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2 年How can I NOT comment being chosen as one of your 15 persons. Gratitude is a core principal of leadership. Yes, we all have been touched by angels. The difference is that you found the time to pause and say thank you. I am honored to be in this club and to have a small part in your growth. It is my observation that there are many smart people out there but rare is the Wise person. Thank you for this important recognition. This may seem a small task on your part but I am particularly touched. Great careers are usually defined in the end by "doing the right thing" which can be surprisingly difficult. I feel compelled to pass this on to Georgina Payne Benedict F.X. Payne and alexander payne Thank you Joshua
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2 年Aw, geez . . .I am going to cry now. Blest to know you and be part of your journey!
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