Domestic abuse is NOT OK! What can I do in the workplace?
On this International Women’s Day 8th March 2024, it is important to celebrate the women of planet earth, their daily contribution to life, to social cohesion and general wellbeing.
It is also important to recognise that the majority of domestic abuse is committed against women. I feel it is encumbered on all of us to be on a constant vigil, to look out for signs of domestic abuse within our social circles and at work. Lets all band together to eliminate domestic abuse in 2024. #DomesticAbuseIsNotOK
So what are the signs of domestic abuse. What can each of us look out for among our work colleagues? Potentially, initiating a conversation of support or encourage them to seek support or just listen.
Recognising the Signs: Supporting Colleagues Experiencing Domestic Abuse
The workplace is often a second home, a place of routine and stability. But for some colleagues, that stability can be shattered by the unseen threat of domestic abuse. Domestic abuse can have a significant impact on a person's work life, and as a colleague, you might be the first to notice signs of trouble.
Here's how to recognize potential signs that a colleague might be experiencing domestic abuse at home:
1.????? Changes in behaviour: Is your once bubbly colleague withdrawn and quiet? Are they easily flustered or irritable? Domestic violence can cause anxiety, depression, and difficulty concentrating, leading to noticeable shifts in personality.
2.????? Unexplained absences or lateness: Does your colleague seem to be struggling to get to work on time, or miss work unexpectedly? This could be due to dealing with the aftermath of abuse, attending court dates, or needing to care for children impacted by the situation.
3.????? Physical injuries: Unexplained bruises, cuts, or burns, especially if they're accompanied by excuses that seem unlikely, could be a red flag.
4.????? Changes in work performance: A decline in focus, missed deadlines, or difficulty completing tasks efficiently can all be signs of the emotional toll domestic violence takes.
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5.????? Isolation and secretiveness: Does your colleague seem reluctant to talk about their home life, or avoid social gatherings after work? This could be due to fear of their abuser or a desire to protect themself.
6.????? Constant phone calls or texts: An abusive partner might use excessive communication to control their victim's whereabouts and actions. This can be disruptive and create anxiety for the person being targeted.
How can you help?
It's important to remember that you can't force someone to talk about their situation. However, you can create a safe and supportive space:
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8 个月Well said Alex. I’d like to add that the effects of abuse are long lasting and even harder to detect. Someone’s who avoids confrontation or step up and out of their comfort zone despite having the right skills and talent.