Does online dating frustrate you, or worse, make you feel sad?

Does online dating frustrate you, or worse, make you feel sad?

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If this is you, then welcome to the club. Let’s commiserate together.

I started online dating in 2011 before it was so mainstream. Even then it was frustrating and disheartening.

? Didn’t know how to make it work

? Couldn’t get attention from the women I desired

? Had no mentor to provide objective feedback to me

? Thought everyone else on it was wrong

? Didn’t know how to make the communication exciting and attractive

? Couldn’t get on dates

I messed around with it day after day, week after week. I just became more and more disillusioned and disheartened. I thought it meant I was simply just not good enough, and everyone else on the sites were cheats and fools.

I got mad. And then I got even.

 I put my ego aside. I realised that the problem didn’t stem from the online dating, but in fact, that truth be told, I was just bad at dating and attraction in general. I didn’t understand how the rules worked. I didn’t understand the dynamics, I lacked the self-confidence, and I didn’t know what to do. There were clearly other people winning – it just wasn’t me.

The reality today is that online dating has surged because traditional ways of meeting new people have been restricted – but simply setting up a profile and hitting GO is not nearly enough. I talk to men regularly who thought it would be raining quality dates with the click of a button.

I made a decision to fix it and since 2011 I’ve done nothing much else but worked to understand the mechanics of dating, the psychology, the reasons people behave the way they do.

I’ve practiced, tested, refined, studied and applied everything I learned over years, so that now:

? You can learn exactly how to set up a killer profile

? I can teach you how to set the vibe and lead it where you want it to go

? I can show you how to know exactly what she’s thinking

? I can teach you exactly why she’s behaving the way she is

? I can show you how to get the number quickly and get off the dating app

? I can guide you on how to organise an alluring and exciting date

? And most importantly – you can learn what NOT to do - and WHY.

You gotta understand that online dating is supplementary to real life interactions. It’s a superficial meeting place. Sure, there’s a heavy focus on it right now. But if you don’t understand what’s under the surface – yourself, women, attraction, dynamics – then no matter how good your photos are you’ll continue to be frustrated.

Once you learn these things, online dating becomes easy. You know what you’re doing, and you can influence the outcomes – and finally create a rich, abundant dating life.

Yes. It’s possible for EVERY man. How do YOU feel about it?

And if you can relate to any of the problems I had, and want to find out how to fix them, then send me a message. My DMs are always open. 

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