Do you want to live life, or do you want to escape life?
Basavaraj Goni
People, Product, Process and Technology Consultant @ Delta Airlines || Ex-Deloitte | A-CSPO
From last 3 days I am seeing loads of messages/posts on Sushant Singh Rajput, suddenly everyone becoming psychologist and motivator. Suggesting that they will be there for them anytime and telling to reach them respectively if they are feeling down or feeling like suiciding. I mean seriously do you think thief will say that he is thief, looser will say that he is looser similarly no depressed will say he/she is depressing.
1 in 100 will come and say that he/she is depressed. I feel it is people around them need to observe around and see their action. Then only we can say is he/she having any thoughts of suiciding? This is not easy as written.
I feel simple approach is, instead of asking How are you? whenever we meet people. Here comes time to ask below question.
1. How can I support you?
2. What are your top three feelings today?
3. What you have done for yourself today?
Suicide is the last step. What about the preceding suffering? If you are depressed and if you feel the suiciding is the solution, Sorry to say this only you are transferring the pain and problems to your loved ones.
Our lives are not only our own. They also belong to those who surrrond us. Death is waiting for each of us :-) (alteast I think so), why to call before our time??
Let us know what are your views on this.
SAP TM Lead Consultant at Tata Consultancy Services
4 年Good message Basavaraj. Our life belongs to all who surrounds us and its not in our rights to cause pain and problems to our loved ones. I echo with your message. Keep writing more.
Helping businesses be Trade Compliant
4 年We often mistake smile for happiness. Not everyone who is depressed would committe suicide but it does reflect in other aspects of life. So when we do come across someone acting out of ordinary we have got to ask How are you?
Workforce & People Analytics Lead - APAC & CGBS
4 年Nice and sensible write up! I see you have become a good writer too.. :) take care and hope you are doing well
Associate Vice President - Heading Technology, Media and Hi-Tech strategic accounts ( Europe)
4 年Great articulation and very context driven message . I think the practice is extending help by asking the where about is a great process . I completely concur with your statement of passing the pain to loved ones .. Nice message , keep writing and keep inspiring ??
People, Product, Process and Technology Consultant @ Delta Airlines || Ex-Deloitte | A-CSPO
4 年Agree with you. Better to struggle fight then giving up completely. The purpose of life is to live and give a purpose.