Do You Suffer from Insomnia? Some Surprising Strategies to Try.
Gretchen Rubin
6x NYT Bestselling Author | Host of the "Happier with Gretchen Rubin" Podcast | Pre-order "Secrets of Adulthood," out April 1st
Recently I had a bad night of tossing and turning. I was up for a few hours, then overslept the next morning.
And while I was lying there, unable to sleep, I knew I was violating some of the beat-the-insomnia advice that experts give. Though, true, to give myself credit, I was following some advice.
These tips were on my mind, because I’d just read Andrea Petersen’s Wall Street Journal piece “Middle-of-the-Night Insomnia Blues.”
I violated one of the most basic back-to-sleep tips — the tip to get up, rather than toss and turn.
If you have trouble with insomnia, here are some of the tips from the article:
1. If you’re wide awake, get up.
I just kept lying there thinking, “I should get up.” Somehow, I couldn’t muster the energy to get up. I would’ve been a little cold, when I got out from under the covers, and I didn’t feel like reading my book…so I just stayed put. Bad idea.
2. I love this tip: If you watch TV, wear sunglasses.
Hilarious! Apparently the sunglasses help to block the light that will mess up your circadian rhythm. I couldn’t watch TV during my insomnia because (this is embarrassing to admit) my family and I were staying in a rental house, and I didn’t know how to turn on the TV. TV-watching is so confusing these days. If I’d been wide awake, I could’ve figured out how to manage the TV, but I couldn’t face the challenge in the middle of the night.
3. Don’t eat.
I make a point not to eat between dinner and breakfast, as a habit for healthy eating, but the article makes an interesting additional argument: middle-of-the-night eating can condition you to keep doing it in the future. I was reminded of a dog-training story I just read: a couple had trouble because their dog kept waking them up in the middle of the night to eat. Turned out that the dog had been conditioned to do that, because they’d had a new baby, and the father was getting up to the feed the baby, and at the same time, he gave the dog a snack. The baby started sleeping through the night, but the dog still wanted the snack.
4. Don’t sleep late the next morning.
Which I did, by accident. Usually I set my alarm, and I really don’t know why I forgot to set it that night. Bad timing, but fortunately, I slept well the next night.
5. If you get up, keep lights dim.
I’m good about doing this. It really does help. When we moved into our apartment, I was careful to make sure to put dimmable lights in the bathroom.
Interesting fact I learned: “Waking up–and staying up–in the middle of the night is more common than having trouble falling asleep.”
I wrote more sleep-related tips here: 14 tips for getting more sleep–and why it matters. I’m a sleep zealot! I’ve learned through tough experience that it’s hard to be happy, and to stick to my good habits, when I’m exhausted. In fact, “sleep” is one of the key habits for the Strategy of Foundation that I write about in Better Than Before. If you want to change a habit — any habit — getting enough sleep is a key first step.
Do you have any good tips for battling insomnia?
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8 年Good write up, I have two(2) things I do that make me easily fall asleep again; (1) Take deep breath(inhaling and exhaling slowly) while lying on the bed, for 10 to 20 times or more. You won't know when you fall asleep before you get to 20. (2) Take Bible, open any page and as you read, you'll sleep off.
Experto en Real Estate | Director de inmuebles comerciales |Team Leader División Comercial en Miranda Bosch
8 年Whenever you can not sleep, they are for unresolved concerns or problems during the day or week. Seeking to attend to the urgent and resolve, with all the tools at our disposal, will allow us to rest, mentally and physically. Help others during the day, take care of doing, collaborate, understand that everything we give, we will receive, with a smile on the face. Do, give, deal, laugh. All this will spread around us and make us more fully happy.
Experto en Real Estate | Director de inmuebles comerciales |Team Leader División Comercial en Miranda Bosch
8 年Siempre que no puedas dormir, son por las preocupaciones o problemas no resueltos durante el día o la semana. Procurar atender lo urgente y resolver, con todas las herramientas a nuestro alcance, hará que podamos descansar, mental y fisicamente. Ayudar a los demás durante el día, ocuparnos de hacer, colaborar, entender que todo lo que damos, lo recibiremos, con una sonrisa en el rostro. Hacer, dar, ocuparse, reir. Todo esto contagiará a nuestro alrededor y nos hará mas plenamente felices.
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8 年Sleeping is mandatory to rest physically as well as psyvhology....it helps to tackle stressesss.if someone suffering from insomnia they can take bath....the cool breeze make them sleepy and they will step in sleep soon...but very after heavy work it's not suitable....
School Principal - Raytown Middle School
8 年Put lavender oil on a cotton ball and place it under your pillow case. It's therapeutic and soothing!