Do you REALLY want be "the confident one"?

Do you?really really?want to be "the confident one",?my friend??

This question may sound like a no-brainer, but I am absolutely serious about this. There’s hardly anyone who does not have “feeling confident” high up on their goal list. I’m sure you do too.

And still, how consistent are you in pursuing greater confidence?

I get it. Working on confidence is different from checking boxes on your to-do list at work or optimizing for the metrics that you’ve set out for a tangible goal, like saving money for the down-payment on a house or taking a certain number of classes a month to be ready for an important certification by fall.

Granted, it’s different –?but not as much as you think right now.

And one reason why you may have trouble getting there is because something is in your way –?you may be unwilling to pay the hidden costs of greater confidence.

What?! Let me explain that ...

While you know that greater confidence would help you nail your dream job and that salary increase you deserve, a part of you may shy away from being in charge of a team, or proving that you’re “worth” that large sum of money you’re being paid.

Or maybe you expect your family to lean more on you when you are known as "the confident one", and that scares the s*** out of you.

Being aware of why we are pushing away things we want is the first step to changing it. This is why today I am inviting you to get real and answer the following three questions:?

1) What benefits do I expect from feeling more confident?

2) What are my hidden costs of greater confidence?

3) Am I willing to pay these costs?

Please be brutally honest with yourself.? And if your answer to question 3) is, not really –?no need to despair!?And please don’t beat yourself up for it.?

This is where you are, and I invite you to honor that place first. And then move forward.?

Because there’s the next set of questions you can add:

4) Why am I afraid of these hidden costs?

5) Is it a fact that I would have to pay this price?

6) What does it cost me to not build greater confidence?

Again, brutally honest please.?Because the price we pay to?get?something and the price we pay to stay where we?are?both need to be looked at to make sure you are putting yourself up for your best life.

Did anything shift in your perspective with the first and/or second set of questions?

Did you gain any insight? (I’d love to hear it!!)

If you want to dive deeper into these issues and learn how to tap your sense of confidence when it really matters, I have something for you:?

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In a series of five meetings, I'll teach you my confidence framework – so that you can tap into your confidence whenever you need to step up your game.

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