Do You Love What You're Doing? Does It Matter?
Mike Staver, CSP, CPAE
High Performance Coach + Keynote Speaker I Bridging the gap between good intentions and outstanding results I Author of Leadership Isn't for Cowards I Staver Coaching Certification
If you listen carefully, you can hear the murmur of debate: whether people should be doing something they love for work.
Should people be actively enjoying their work and living out at least part of their purpose in life through their careers? In 2013, Gallup released some research that indicated 24% of workers HATE their jobs. OK, so that's a lot of people, but what is more startling to me is that a full 63% don't hate their jobs but are not engaged and don't particularly like their jobs. Those numbers are worldwide numbers. It turns out the U.S. has some of the best numbers in the world, with 30% happy in their work, 52% feeling blah, and 18% who hate their jobs. Compared to the rest of the world, those numbers aren't as bad...but come on...they are still pathetic.
Here's my point: does it really matter? Some would argue that finding joy, happiness and purpose at work doesn't matter. Others would argue the opposite. Facts say that unhappy, disengaged people are less productive, take more time off for sick leave, and generally drag down efficiency.
I am not smart enough to fix those issues, but I do know this: the healthiest people are the people who are drawn to some core meaning. They are involved in pursuits that impact them and the world where they live in meaningful ways. I am blessed to enjoy a career where I am certain that I am doing exactly what I am supposed to be doing for exactly the right reasons that fulfill and energize me. But not all areas of my work fulfill and energize me; not all parts of speaking and coaching center and ground me. Traveling is often exhausting, but I do it so that I can do what I love. That's the message I want to convey to you. Rigorously find something or somewhere to feel and experience what REALLY matters to you. Be relentless in creating space to live out those things that energize and center you. Here's a clue: it has nothing to do with stuff.
- Do a fearless inventory of your life. Find those areas that distract and dilute your energy, the things that aren't in alignment with your core values and purpose.
- Evaluate the extent to which adjustments to the choices you make or the energy you invest could increase your level of engagement.
- Keep in mind that being fully engaged doesn't always come from work alone.
- Focus your energy away from stuff and eliminate any stuff that distracts and draws you away from what matters most.
- Create at least one silent time in your week. No phone, no meetings, no people. In the stillness, immerse yourself in gratitude.
Award Winning New Home Sales and Marketing Expert and Strategist NAHB Certified Public Speaker | Sales Coach | Thought Leader
9 年I take 15 minutes of silent time, each day, to THINK
Doctor of Real Estate Sales & Marketing at at Weichert Realtors
9 年Excellent and to the point. Gratitude leads to more being thankful and being more thankful makes a better you!
Realtor? | Coach | Marketer
9 年Great post Mike! It's one of the reasons I went back to the field. I truly enjoyed leadership but my heart was in the field all along. #DoWhatYouLove #LoveWhatYouDo
Acceleration Coach & Co-Founder at the Association & Society Speakers Community
9 年There's a big difference between not loving what you do and actually hating going to work. When I think about love, it's my wife, my kids, blah blah blah. Do I put my job on the same level? Not even close. I'm fortunate to be doing something I really enjoy. But most people aren't in my situation. My dad worked in a factory for 30 years. I don't think he loved shift work. Or loved getting up at 5:30 in the morning on cold January days. But he had purpose. It was us. His job allowed him to be a great dad. When I was younger he said to me. "When you're on your deathbed you'll wish you'd done a lot of things differently. But the one thing I guarantee you won't say is 'I wish I worked more Sundays.'" In the end our jobs don't define us as people. Some jobs suck. But they have to get done. Somebody has to do them. Does it matter if a job has meaning? Not everyone has the luxury to say yes.
Owner, FOXRELO~YOUR TURN-KEY RELO TEAM
9 年Thank you Mike!!! I do love what I do!