Do you like to be in control? Does that give you the best of everyone?
Noomi Melchior Natan
Leadership Courage Catalyst I Executive Coaching I podcaster @Female Inner Power | Being Power & Leadership Energetics I See all offers free, paid and 1:1 at noominatan.com/everything
“I just need to be in control of this…”
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How often do you hear yourself or someone else say something like this? "I just need to get on top of this." "I’ve got to get control of it." "I just need to work a little harder until we get through the next period so I get control of this."
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How do YOU feel about control?
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What do YOU want to be in control of?
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And why?
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Ask yourself those questions. Pause to hear what answers pop in your mind, before you continue reading.
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I have noticed that wanting to be in control is mostly because we are afraid. Often there are lots of reasonable explanations for why it’s important we are in control. But if you dig a little, you will discover something that is fear-based.
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We fear what might happen if we are not in control.
We fear what might not happen if we are not in control.
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It’s exhausting try be in control of it all.
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We tell ourselves it’s better when we are in control.
That we are sacrificing ourselves for the good of it all, by working hard to control it.
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But flow and expansion doesn’t need to be controlled. In fact, when you control they cannot happen.
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And people don’t show up as their best selves when they are controlled. A human at their best will bring you magic that you can never have if you try to control how them.
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In our current world of work, we have created so many checks and balances to control everything. To measure and check. The be able to know exactly what outcomes we get.
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This way is driven by fear.
By fearing we are not good enough.
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By fearing we cannot trust others, that we cannot trust life, that we need to take charge or else...
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We have good reasons for wanting to be in control. And we get a lot from this approach. It will just never be our best. Or anyone else’s best.
So ask yourself now:
Allow yourself to contemplate this for more than a moment.
And if you want to elevate your leadership and your impact without having to work harder or controlling more, then I would love you to check out the new program called The Guided Leader. See more in the PS. There is a very special pre-sale offer right now.
And of course, now is a great time to breathe,
Noomi
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PS. The Guided Leader is a brand new offer. Wildly exciting. Definitely not for everyone. But if it tickles you, sign up now and benefit from the early booking offer.
It's designed for the busy human who are longing for better leadership and more impact without working harder or needing to control more.
In The Guided Leader we will explore how spiritual principles can help us lead for the best of all without a need to use fear-based control.
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The Guided Leader is for conscious humans who are ready to lead in a different way. It’s for leaders who are wanting to take themselves to a new level of personal best that brings more goodness to everyone they lead and work with.
What is a pre-sale?
It means the course isn’t available yet. The course will run over September and October. It will be a mix of self-study material and live calls. There will always be replays if you can’t make it live.
It is designed for someone with a very busy life. You will have ongoing access to all the material also when the live elements have ended. So you can return again and again over the next years.
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If the thought of advancing your leadership, your intuition, your impact with practical use of spiritual principles excite you, then this is definitely for you.
Oh – almost forgot. I recorded an 8-minute video to explain more - watch it here.
If you've never bought any of my products of services perhaps it's important for you to know that I am all about making things practical as well as deeply transformational. I also believe in overdelivering. And I totally understand how busy your life is, so the material will be designed to fit in between everything else. Message me at [email protected] with questions.