Do You Know What Your Most Important Relationship Is?

It is interesting that whenever people use the word?"relationship",?the majority of people almost always think of?"romantic relationships."

However, relationships come in many shapes and sizes...

For example; your relationship with your best friend, your relationship with your barista at your favourite coffee shop (I couldn't resist), your relationship with your next-door neighbour (not always good, but a relationship nonetheless), your relationship with your boss and of course your relationships with other family members and people who you grew up with and are close to.

Relationships have never been limited to the?"romantic"?variety (by most people at least), but the most important relationship of all, is the one that you often give the least attention to… in fact in most cases it is rarely considered at all.

Now you might be asking… “What is this supposedly important relationship that you are talking about?”

Well… the most important relationship of all is the one you have with yourself!

Unfortunately, because you don't intentionally focus on this relationship, your continual negative self-talk, (and it is, more often than not, negative), has a profound immediate and long-term impact on who you will become, how you act and what you actually achieve in life... in all aspects of your life.

If you want to achieve any kind of success… you need to start by improving your self-talk about who you are and this in turn will help you create good quality relationships with others… positively changing the story (the narrative) that you keep telling yourself is so important, yet most people hardly give it any focus in their lives.

That story needs to have all the "can’ts, don'ts, shouldn'ts, and other negative words removed... and before you use that very old, worn out excuse of,?"I am just being realistic", understand this…

THE STORY THAT YOU KEEP TELLING YOURSELF WILL CONSTANTLY DEFINE YOU…

This can be achieved by simply catching yourself when ever you recognise that you are getting down on yourself... it talks time, patience and being very vigilant...

I did say that it was simple, but I didn't say that it would be easy. But the rewards that you will achieve can and will be truly remarkable.

So... choose your words wisely and create a positive, dynamic and powerful story that will re-frame your reality, your relationship with yourself and your relationships with others.

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