Do you allow your financial success?
Dagmar Fleming
Success Coach | Mindset Expert | Author | Speaker | I empower entrepreneurs to accelerate their growth, amplify life purpose & fulfill their potential even if they hit a wall.
Most people set goals based on what they want to accomplish.?
Let’s say your goal is to reach a certain income this year. You may phrase it as: “I want to make $200,000 this year.” It seems good, right?
Not really, my friend.
Here’s why.
The purpose of your goal does not lie in wanting. Wanting is just a desire for something you don’t have… don’t know… haven’t experienced… haven’t tried.
The goal is to HAVE - not to want.
This is why I advise my clients to write their goals in the present tense, as if they have already achieved them, e.g. ”I have earned $200,000 this year.”
If you put a number to your desire, I suggest you also add the word “more” to it as you don't want to limit the Universe and your own capacity to exceed your expectations.
The better goal would be: “I have earned $200,000 or more this year.”
The next thing I would add is "with ease and grace," because you can earn that $200,000 through complete struggle, exhaustion, and stress, or you can release the program of struggle and manifest without hardship.
“I have earned $200,000 or more with ease and grace this year.”
It seems we’re getting somewhere now but there is another layer to goal setting.
If we look into the psyche, we'll realize that we conceptualize ourselves through a belief system that determines our sense of identity. That belief system creates experiences in our lives and stories we tell ourselves about who we are and what we can do.
Essentially, we are beings of limitless potential that have created a paradigm that locks us into self-imposed limitations. It’s a prison of mind that gives us an illusion of being safe.
If you have never made six figures, dreaming of $200,000 or more may sound jarring and unsafe because it lies beyond your comfort zone. The beliefs like, “It will never happen; I'm not good enough; I'm not smart enough,” allow you to remain as you are without ever trying and thus feeling safe from judgment or disappointment. What if you tried and didn't succeed?
The $200,000+ question is…
If we are creatures of self-imposed limitations, then how can we achieve our goals?
It begins with simple ALLOWANCE.
The same income goal can be rephrased as “I allow myself to earn $200,000 or more with ease and grace this year.” It permits your psyche to release self-imposed constraints that kept you below your target.
We are the ones that allow or disallow our wants, desires, and dreams.
Just wanting something does not lead to its fruition. It keeps you stuck at not having... not reaching... not experiencing.
It's the allowance that gives you the opportunity to act upon your desire when you're in complete emotional, mental, and energetic coherence with your goal.
Such coherence comes from being able to give yourself permission to reach for something that may have not been attainable in the past.
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Practice the act of permission.
Ask yourself…
“What allowances can I grant myself today that will release me from self-imposed limitations and let me reach for the stars?”
Throughout your life, you've experienced moments when others told you who you could be and what you were capable of.
You've internalized their perception of you, and it’s led you to believe that this is who you are. This is all you can be.
But these are just limitations.
These are just concepts.
They are not real.
They can be just as easily discarded as they were allowed into existence.
Disallow the limitations and allow what is possible for you.
Begin your day today with a statement “I allow myself to…” and add whatever it is that your heart desires. This is your new mantra. This will lead you to the stars.
Allow your success, my friend.
Cheers,
Dagmar
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Dagmar Fleming, Founder of Unlock Your Success, blends expertise in global business with energy healing. A bestselling author and media fixture, she's a co-host of Thriving Women TV and is featured in the Los Angeles Tribune and prestigious platforms like Think & Grow Rich Institute Summit. Her Triple Quantum Reset? modality helps leaders overcome hurdles for personal and professional success. Through mentorship of The Athena Circle, she empowers women to flourish and reach their full potential.
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9 个月Thank you for this reminder, Dagmar Fleming. Allowing ourselves to receive success is a challenge for so many of us.
Great article