Do We Let Disillusionment Justify Our Purpose?
Kavitha Kanaparthi (kavithakanaparthi.x)
World's first decentralized identity infrastructure. SSI | Blockchain Innovation | Leadership | Washington University in St.Louis |
Disillusionment is a heavy emotion. It sneaks into our lives when our expectations clash with reality, leaving us questioning the things we once believed in. But here’s a provocative thought: Do we sometimes let these disillusionments fester, not to heal or move on, but to justify the purposes we’ve carved out for ourselves?
Think about it. Disillusionment can offer us a strange kind of clarity—it forces us to see the cracks in the systems, relationships, or ideals we once revered. But instead of resolving these feelings, we may cling to them, using them as fuel for our newfound purpose. We convince ourselves that our disillusionment is proof of our growth, our depth, or even our moral superiority.
But at what cost?
When we allow disillusionment to fester, it can distort our perspectives, harden our beliefs, and close us off from possibilities.
Often when we work with people or build associations, over a period of time, we begin to reflect on our journey with them. Our intuitive sense challenges our
It risks turning purpose into something reactive—a way to validate the wounds we carry—rather than something aspirational. True purpose doesn’t need the weight of disillusionment to anchor it; it thrives on hope, curiosity, and a willingness to engage with the world, flaws and all.
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The Impact of Disillusionment on Our Life Paths
Disillusionment is a complex emotional state that can cloud our judgment and influence the paths we choose. When our ideals or expectations are shattered, it often leaves a void—a moment of crisis where the clarity we once had is replaced by doubt, frustration, or even bitterness. In this state, disillusionment can become a silent dictator, subtly steering us toward paths that may not align with our true values or aspirations.
So, here’s the challenge: Are we using disillusionment to justify our purpose, or are we embracing purpose as a path to transform disillusionment into something constructive?
Let’s reflect, reframe, and rebuild.
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