Do This Now to Change and Enjoy Your Life Completely 1. Stop Chasing Success! 2. Redefine Success . 3. Think "Life Management" 4. Think HW Sharp

High Five! Come closer and let's talk. I am your success meta-coach today!

How do you feel right now? Happy? Sad? Excited? Bored? Be honest with yourself. If you do not feel happy right now, just own up to yourself. If you are not feeling good right now, just tell yourself you are not happy. Please! Please! Do not follow their advice and start shouting;

"I am happy!

I am excited!

I am full of joy!"

You see, your inner-self cannot be fooled! Your inner self knows the truth that you are not happy no matter how much you deny it. You see, many people who talk about positive thinking go it wrong. Positive thinking is not about denying "reality". Positive think is futuristic but is not about closing your eyes and pretending that what exists does not exist.

If you are interested I, your metacoach, will show you a great way of dealing with your emotions and how you feel in a practical way that does not include fooling yourself. You can get in touch with me anytime.

Now, let's talk about success. Many people have a very stressful definition and concept of success. They are given a bad definition of success. Many, many people think about success in terms of accumulations and material possessions.

• "They" talk about success only in terms of pursuing some goals, in many cases very lofty goals that are often beyond their strategic capacity.
• "They" use a competitive and comparatively model of success where you are "forced" to compare yourself with others in terms of achievements, making you feel less successful when you look at what others have acquired or accomplished.
• "They" also use fame and popularity as a yardstick of being successful, meaning the more popular and famous you are, the more you are considered as a more successful than others.
• "They" talk about success in terms of achievement only; an end.
• Many people then look at some kind role models in success and try to be like them or to be as "successful" as them. In many cases these models are only successful in one area of life and may be struggling very badly in other areas of life. So get me right, role models are important yet not all role models are worth following.
• People then try to "copy" someone else's success and to live someone's else's life.

You haven't achieved success until you......

This is the painful success code-"You haven't achieved success until you...."

You know what? I don't know to say this;

I am not sure if I am wrong or right but in my own research, all the cases I have read about people who became very financially successful never made a lot of money because they made being financially rich their primary goal. They never said;

"My goal is to be a millionaire?" or

"My goal is to become a billionnaire!"

Ok! Maybe for some it was their secret ambitions but the ones I have studied including Elon Musk, Richard Branson, Andrew Carnegie, Steve Jobs, Warren Buffest and others became financially success as a RESULT not as a GOAL. They became more successful by being who they were and doing things that made an impact on others. Let me say;

They became financially successful by doing or by being or by having or by knowing or by a combination of the four.

My point is simple.

1. Your definition of success must not induce any feelings of failure or inadequacy at the moment
2. Your definition of success must not be conditional-it must not give you the impression that you are less successful today.
3. Your definition and concept of success must not be comparative-comparing your life or self with others.

If You Do Not Have an Enjoyable Definition of Success, Think About Life Management

Listen to Jim Rohn, one of the greatest inspirational speakers;

"Success is not something you run after. Success is something that you attract by the person you become." Say it after me;

"Success is not something that I run after. Success is something that I attract by the person I become!"

Thinking about life management is better off than thinking about "success" if your definition and concept of success is robbing you of happiness and wellbeing in the moment today while you "wait to be successful."

Thinking about life management gives you better results because life is not one-dimensional but multi-dimensional. A poor definition of #success can create serious imbalances in your life and can lead to you compromising other dimensions of life that are equally important.

Have a Success Coach or a Life Management Coach?

Let me ask you.

1. Do you want to be successful?
2. Given what I have said so far, if you were to choose between a success coach and life management coach, what would be your choice?
3. Being honest what is your definition of success? Or what does success mean to you?
4. How much success do you want?
5. What will make you know that you are now successful?
6. Do you want a good definition and theory of success?

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?Simon Bere, 2024