DO EXPECT FROM PEOPLE…

Are you someone who believes that we should not expect anything from anyone, especially in a relationship? And when you believe that there is no space for Expectation in a relationship you have made the biggest mistake of your life. “Don’t expect anything from anyone” is a phrase used by the people who are unskilled.

Relationships are here to give you happiness, growth and freedom not to make us sacrifice on your dream, wishes, hold us back, give us suffering, never ending stress and frustration.

No matter at what stage of your relationship you are, whether you are about to start a relationship (New job, getting married, New boss), are already in relationship (in job with boss and colleagues, in business with clients and in sales with customers) and have already ruined a relationship (not in talking term with someone and not feeling happy being together), you can win it back and sustain it without living like a saint who expects nothing and keep serving. And let me tell you people will love you for that.??

Every relationship has a cost attached to it…cost in terms of your time, effort and money invested and most importantly the emotional investment. If there is investment than should be return also. Return means the expectation we have from the relationship i.e. it should give me peace of mind, it should give me better opportunity, promotion, increment, help me to learn, gain more clients and customers, support me in tough time etc. etc.

Believe it or not but we all get into a relationship (with choice or without choice)…with an expectation. You cannot separate expectation and relationship. Just because of this single believe that relationship exist without expectations, we neither understand the expectation, nor share the expectation. And even if we do we struggle, instead of doing any good we end up doing more harm. Because there is lot to be done, even before you decide to share or understand the expectation which is totally a blind area for most of the people.

I made a big mistake of taking relationship for granted and worked without expectation, built and maintained them in a way that it was sure that they have nothing for me in return. I tried every single thing I could think of to bring them to my way of thinking, gain back their confidence and trust but failed even more miserably. The more I tried to sort out the things the more they resisted and the more distance got created.

In absence of a system which has correct methods, techniques, in absence of the right mindset and directed efforts, I saw no hope, felt frustrated, defeated, helpless and hopeless. I was alone. That loneliness gave me a chance to reflect back and re-work everything and built a system which worked for all the relationship in all areas of my life.

It took me years to convert my learning in terms of what worked for me repeatedly into a system which is teachable, comprehensive and can be replicate by anyone at any stage of the relationship to win it back.

If you are interested to learn these tips, tricks and hacks of being successful in any kind of relationship. I will be sharing them in the form of videos on this channel. In a very systematic and categorized manner. Let’s work together to get the best out of a relationship which you deserve.

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Let’s pause for now, reflect and connect again in future to take our relationship further.?

Narender kumar

Bringing Positive Changes in People's Lives