Ditch the Sales Pitch: How to Attract Clients with a Discovery Process
Ralph Kison
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Imagine sitting down for your first meeting with a potential client, a referral from a trusted friend. The stakes feel high—you’re eager to make a good impression, but nagging thoughts creep in:
These worries create a sense of:
I understand these feelings well. When I started my business 34 years ago, securing clients was essential to put food on the table, pay the mortgage, and provide for my family. But this pressure led me to make mistakes: I would rush to answer questions, propose solutions before fully understanding the client's needs, discount my rates to win the business, and generally feel like I was at their mercy. In the process, I realized I was surrendering power to the client, leaving me feeling exposed and insecure.
It wasn’t until I realized that I was giving up control by reacting to their agenda that everything changed. I remembered that I was the expert, the one who could guide the process rather than just respond to it.
Shifting the Sales Process: From Pitching to Guiding
When prospective clients asked, "Why should we select you?" or "What makes you better than the others we’re interviewing?" I resisted giving a sales pitch. Instead, I responded with:
Starting with a neutral or even slightly hesitant response disarms the client. It shifts the conversation from a traditional pitch to a collaborative dialogue.
Reframing the Conversation
I began setting the stage by saying:
“Here’s how I propose we use our time today. Let’s focus on clarifying the outcomes you’re aiming for, identifying what’s most important to you, determining how success will be measured, and helping me understand your company culture. Once I have that insight, I can share how I might be able to help.”
That single shift changed everything.
Instead of feeling like I had to “prove” myself, I found that creating a foundation of mutual respect and understanding led to uncovering the client’s real needs. This approach allowed me to present tailored, high-value options that truly addressed their goals.
Why This Works
You have expertise, solutions, and insights that can make a real difference. By guiding prospects through a discovery process rather than pitching, you empower them to see the value of your approach. This makes them more invested and engaged, increasing their trust in your ability to address their needs (if you have gone through my BD/sales program, you’ll remember the power of the discovery phase from the Sales Diamond?).
So, the next time you meet a prospect, remember: you don’t need to pitch. Lead them through a journey of discovery. In doing so, you’ll create deeper connections and set the stage for meaningful, lasting partnerships.
Never pitch your products and services again—lead your prospects to an informed buying decision instead.
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