Ditch the Bullsh*t: How Living in Integrity Will Skyrocket Your Success

Ditch the Bullsh*t: How Living in Integrity Will Skyrocket Your Success

Hey there, successful peeps! Maybe you've climbed more ladders than a fireman and built more success than a middle schooler playing Minecraft, but how are you... really? Are you living life on your own terms, or are you just following the crowd? How do you sleep at night? Let's explore one of my favorite words a bit more and discover how it can lead you to a life of unbelievable freedom. The word is integrity.

First off, let's clear up a common misconception. Integrity isn't just about telling the truth. It's about being fully integrated with your whole self and living in alignment with your values and needs. This means putting yourself first sometimes, even if it goes against what others expect of you.

Sure, you might be thinking, "But I've already achieved success. I've got a stable income, good relationships, and my basic needs are met. What more do I need?" Well, my friend, it's time to uplevel. Beyond the having is the belonging and self-actualization. That's where the real freedom unlocks.

Sometimes, being in integrity means advocating for yourself and your needs, even if it means going against what others want for you. Maybe your boss wants to give you a raise, but it comes with a boring job title that doesn't align with your need for individuality. Instead of just going along with it, advocate for yourself and find a way to merge both your needs.

Now, I know what you're thinking, "But won't that make me look like a selfish jerk?" Not at all! When you're in integrity with yourself, you're better positioned to help others and contribute to society in a meaningful way. You can't pour from an empty cup, so it's essential to prioritize your own needs and well-being first.

So, the next time you're faced with a decision that goes against your values and needs, ask yourself, "Am I really in integrity with myself if I go along with this?" Don't confuse integrity with oversharing or putting others first. It's about fully representing yourself and your needs in the moment.

In conclusion, living a life of personal freedom and integrity is possible, even for traditionally "successful" individuals like you. Don't be afraid to advocate for yourself and prioritize your own needs. When you're in alignment with your values and needs, you'll be better positioned to make a meaningful contribution to society.

If you enjoyed this article, please share it on LinkedIn to help me uplevel my professional portfolio and public persona. And if you're feeling the pull towards a greater level of personal freedom, feel free to reach out to me for tools and support. Let's uplevel our integrity game together!

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