Discovering Your Path to Growth, Transformation, and Wholeness

When you say you want to be more productive... what is it you're REALLY after?

Productivity itself isn't a goal. Not a true goal anyway. Not an end-result goal. It's a goal that we think will lead to accomplishing more, doing more, being more, having more... but are even those things true goals? Are they end-result goals?

Let's think about this for a moment.

Put aside what you think you know as you read the rest of this and really process what I'm saying.

Let's say you have a goal of losing weight.

Is the goal to be thinner? To be healthier? You could say it is BUT is that the end-result you're truly after?

Let's say you have a goal of earning more money.

Is the goal to be wealthier? To buy more things? A bigger house or a nicer car? Are those the end-results you're after by wanting more money?

Let's say you have a goal to be in a stronger, more intimate and loving relationship with your partner.

Is the goal to have better conversations? To be able to spend more time together without arguing? To have more satisfying sex? Are those the end-results you're after?

Here's how you decide what your end-result goal actually is.

If you want to lose weight, what is it you think will happen when you're thinner and healthier?

If you want to earn more money, what do you think that having money and buying things will provide for you?

If you want to improve your relationship, what do you think the better conversations, sex, and intimacy will provide you with?

Typically, end-result goals funnel into three categories:

• Love and Connection
• Safety and Security
• Peace and Happiness

When you say you want all those other things, what you're really saying is you feel a lack of any one or more of the three categories listed above.

You may want to lose weight so you feel accepted by others and loved for your true worth which means you aren't feeling that way now and you feel that the weight is the only thing standing between you and the love and connection you so desperately want and need.

You may want to earn more money and buy/have more things so you can feel a sense of safety and security, overcoming feelings of trauma associated with a lack of money from your past, or it could be that you're after love and connection and feel that if you had more to share, others would more readily connect with you or find value in you, or it could also be that you don't feel peace and happiness within and feel that if you could just have THAT HOUSE or THAT CAR or THAT BANK ACCOUNT, then you'd have that feeling of peace and happiness that has always seemed to elude you.

You may want a deeper and more connected relationship to increase your feelings of peace and happiness or love and connection or safety and security or even all three wrapped up together.

The point of this is that your desire for more is typically rooted in lack of and fear of not having the experiences that matter most in life.

The fact is though that these experiences that matter most don't need to come through the things you think. You don't have to lose weight or make more money or even have a better relationship. These aren't the barriers you think they are.

These are symptoms of the barrier within you.

Go back and read that line again.

Do you feel the truth of that statement?

Now I'm gonna get into the spiritual side of this and if this challenges your beliefs, just hang out with me here for a minute and open up your heart to what I'm saying and feel into it to see if any of this is ringing true for you, even if it goes against what you've been told in the past.

I believe that every single one of us is here for a reason. You, in your present incarnation of life, are a merging of the divine eternal soul that is ALWAYS you and the human body your soul is currently inhabiting.

As we go through life, there is this internal battle being waged, between your soul self and your human ego self. It's truly a one-sided battle though because your soul is patient, loving, forgiving, and all-accepting. Your human ego though is fighting tooth and nail to prove itself to the rest of the world as worthy.

When you experience trauma and emotional pain, forced transformation and blatant rejections, your ego feels it deeply and cannot understand why. All the ego sees and feels is how it has been wronged and questions why you can't be seen as the person you know you truly are. So you question if you are who you think you are or if you're really who all the others seem to see. You question your worthiness.

Your soul sees it ALL as having purpose to bring you to a depth of surrender and release so you can let go of the ego barrier and take your place in the world, feeling whole and complete within yourself. Releasing all fight and struggle that comes with the human ego and connecting with, binding with, your divine eternal soul.

This is when you become your fully actualized self.

This is the journey we are all on. When you fully actualize, you are healing your life's journey, releasing the ego barrier, and all those symptoms of lack and loss and fear... they simply fall away like an old heavy cloak you were wearing and have cast off, never to be seen again.

As a fully actualized being, you have access to your true self, your true purpose, you claim and proclaim who you are and what you're here to do and you do it with success.

Love and connection, safety and security, peace and happiness... they are all yours the moment you release the ego barrier and fully actualize with your divine eternal soul.

There are no more questions of what you deserve or what or who you're worthy of. The pain isn't waiting for you in the shadows any longer. You're no longer craving something you don't have.

You have everything you need inside of you right now.

I'm going to be leading a class next week, on Thursday, June 15th at 1pm eastern, called "Heal Your Life's Journey- Unlocking Your Path to Transformation" and I'd like for you to be there.

If the time/day doesn't work for you, there will be a recording, but I encourage you to be there live so you can be in the energy of the moment.

In this class, I'm going to be discussing some deeply esoteric and spiritual concepts that relate to releasing the ego barrier and fully actualizing with your divine eternal soul self and we'll be discussing the soul's full journey. While the class itself will give you plenty of take-aways on its own, I will be introducing a program at the end for those who would like to learn and do more- an affordable program to guide you through this process of transformation and help you to heal your life's journey. It will simply be an option to go deeper with my guidance and the support of others who choose to join us. It will be a hybrid program of group and 1:1 individualized support at an extremely affordable price.

Whether that deeper level program appeals to you or not, I'd still like you at the free class on Thursday the 15th at 1pm eastern. You'll learn more about yourself, your soul, and the journey you're already on. Please register so I know you'll be there at https://healyourlifesjourney.com

See you next week...