Discover the Power of Emotional Intelligence in Love and Leadership

How to build (romantic) relationships that last, applying Emotional Intelligence.

Meet Thomas - a man whose personal journey through marriage, burnout, divorce, and a career renaissance led him to discover the foundational principles of lasting relationships and career success. After 24 years of marriage and overcoming a second burnout, Thomas relocated to the Netherlands. There, he embarked on a transformative journey to understand the dynamics of a successful loving partnership. His deep dive into relationship dynamics was guided by one important distinction: love is a verb.

The Formula to Make Love Last: Date & Love Like an Emotionally Intelligent Leader

Through his personal experiences and self-study, Thomas crafted a success formula: 'Date & Love like an Emotionally Intelligent Leader'. This approach doesn't just apply to romantic relationships but also enhances your professional interactions.

Here’s how Thomas breaks it down:

Personal Leadership: The Starting Point

Become Your Best Self: Embrace personal development to become capable of attracting and recognizing your ideal partner. You need to become the ‘best person you want to be with’ yourself first! Assess your Emotional Intelligence profile and work on improving it significantly.

Maintain Your Best Self at Work: Show up as the best version of yourself in your professional life to raise your attraction and market value. Your self-improvement elevates your professional appeal and capabilities, making you more remarkable.

Attract and Choose Wisely: In love, as in business, attracting and selecting the right candidate is crucial. Compatibility and chemistry are both essential.

“Too often new couples are swept away by the rush of chemistry, ignoring compatibility completely, which can be a very costly mistake,” says Thomas.

Learn to assess, select, and commit wisely to nurture a fulfilling relationship or a rewarding business partnership.

Plan for Longevity: With your romantic partner, have regular dates to work out and revisit a detailed plan on how to make your love last. This includes strategies to resolve conflict, tolerate perpetual differences, agree to disagree, and nurture your relationship, ensuring it thrives. Yes, the Blueprint exists! And it includes ongoing ‘activity’ as love is a verb.

Grow Together: Commit to mutual growth with your partner, both personal and professional, turning your relationship into the ideal partnership you both envision. Constant improvement, jointly and individually, is key. Not growing means you don't even stand still; instead, you slide backward and grow apart.

Keep the Interest Alive: Continuous engagement and curiosity in each other are key to keeping the relationship dynamic and fulfilling. That’s one key to making love last forever (or until you stop being curious).

In 2022, Thomas remarried, proving his approach and underscoring his commitment to the art of Relationship Building, both personal and professional.

A Lifestyle of Flexibility and Support

Today, Thomas works from different inspiring places, with a team of experts, delivering a potent mix of support to his international clientele. His services offer customised solutions that blend profit growth consulting, Emotional Intelligence assessment, leadership development, relationship coaching, and mediation.

Ready to Transform Your Relationships?

Whether you’re navigating the complex world of dating, striving to enhance your marriage, or looking to boost your professional relationships through Emotional Intelligence, Thomas offers the insight and guidance you need. His approach helps clients lead with confidence and love with wisdom.

Contact us today to start your journey toward becoming an emotionally intelligent leader in every area of your life. Let Thomas show you how, with his proven formula, every relationship can be a source of joy and every professional engagement a step toward success.

Over to you: Can you see how developing your Emotional Intelligence makes you even more attractive, in romance and in business?

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