Discover 130+ Signs Of A Loser Mindset And Learn Proven Strategies To Transform Yourself As a Winner

Psychological And Behavioral Aspects of Success and Failure AND Winners and Losers - It Is All About Mindset

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In this article you will learn the following –

-Who are the winners and who are the Losers

-Why even capable and intelligent people can have loser mindsets and failure mentality

-130 + Signs & Traits of People with Loser Mindset & Failure Mentality

-70 Tips on How to stop being a loser – getting rid of failure mindset

-16 Tips for Dealing Effectively - When You Feel Like a Loser in Life and Are Making a Mess of Your Life

?When you think about a loser in life – you also get a comparative image of the profile of a winner or champion.

What differentiates winners from losers is certainly not about what they have achieved?- BUT – the differentiation happens because of –?the mindset, attitude, and dominant emotional-mental-physical disposition.

Winners are enthusiastic - have long-term big goals – and are action-oriented people - who are focused on finding solutions and improving every aspect of life.

Winners like everyone else – face numerous challenges, crises, disruptions, setbacks, failures, and mistakes - but their self-belief is of such an empowering nature that – they almost immediately start looking at ways on how to bounce back from whatever is holding them back.

Winners never actively try to make other people losers.

In fact- almost all the champions and winners’ mindset people - help others win and grow to their potential and feel happy at others' success and accomplishments.

Winners expect to do well and if they do not do well - they take steps to get the necessary help to succeed next time.

The psychology of a LOSER

A LOSER may not necessarily be a low intelligence or low ability person – they can have all the qualities BUT have a disempowering thought pattern and as a result, manage to lose their advantage unnecessarily.

Losers develop a?negative self-image and an inferiority complex and have negative expectations of self and from others and from their future.

Losers usually refuse to change their viewpoints even when presented with hard evidence showing that they are wrong.

Most of the losers have a mindset of - I am right and as a result, never learn from their mistakes.

Losers blame other people and the external factors plus their LUCK – for their failures.

This stops losers from taking personal responsibility and being accountable - for their mistakes and failures.

Losers also lack self-control, self-discipline, resilience, and perseverance.

Losers tend to boast and brag a lot– only to impress other people – without any solid basis.

Losers may develop a mindset of winning at any cost using any means - as they feel winning makes them good in the eyes of others.

Sore losers?are never happy for their losses AND other’s wins – and when they lose, they start planning ways to make the winners lose.

Losers develop a negative mindset characterized by self-sabotaging behaviors.

The loser mindset gets triggered due to -Deep-rooted emotional insecurity and when they Experience massive failures, setbacks, or life-altering and life-threatening events to hit rock bottom.

Here the differences between losers and winners become more profound – as the loser may give up mentally and emotionally and choose to do nothing.

The setbacks and disrupting and emotionally significant events happen to almost all of us – but losers – who lose their will to fight back to bounce by allowing their circumstances to define their future.

Losers may not see and recognize the positives in their life and lack the empathy to have gratitude and appreciation.

130 + Signs & Traits of People with Loser Mindset & Failure Mentality

1.?? ?They might look tired, deflated, sick, overweight?

2.?? ?They laugh at less fortunate people

3.?? ?They don’t want anyone to succeed

4.?? ?If they get a chance to sabotage anyone’s success – they will – even though other’s success might not have anything to do with their success or happiness

5.?? ?They might also be limited by their Fear of success

6.?? ?They might be getting pulled by the Toxic & negative people in their life?

7.?? ?They have Negative self-talk the majority of the time

8.?? ?They may become a People pleaser

9.?? ?They might have Given up on their life

10.??????????????? ?They might have a Callous approach to physical, mental, and emotional health

11.??????????????? ?They may Watch TV most of the time

12.??????????????? ?They may Play games on mobile for many hours almost every day

13.??????????????? ?They may Post selfies on social media frequently sometimes multiple times a day

14.??????????????? ?They may be Updating the status on their profile on mobile, WhatsApp, email, social-media – regularly every day

15.??????????????? ?They may Forward useless messages to people

16.??????????????? ?They may not have any long-term goals for their future

17.??????????????? ?They may lack passion and hobbies

18.??????????????? ?They Engage in unhealthy habits

19.??????????????? ?They are Closed-minded

20.??????????????? ?They resist change

21.??????????????? ?You may find them Waiting for miracles and magic to happen in their life – without putting any effort

22.??????????????? ?They also go to Godmen-Godwomen-Baba’s – expecting instant rid of their problems – and get cheated hence

23.??????????????? ?They may not take an active interest in learning and self-development

24.??????????????? ?They may Blame luck and others for their poor state of life

25.??????????????? ?They have excuses for their lack of success

26.??????????????? ?They are into religion and religious activities in big ways

27.??????????????? ?They Day-Dream a lot about having all the riches and luxuries -WITHOUT putting any effort

28.??????????????? ?They do not try to stretch beyond their comfort zones

29.??????????????? ?They might get into get-rich-quick schemes – and get cheated

30.??????????????? ?They May get into criminal activities or develop criminal intent

31.??????????????? ?They may lose out to scammers & fraudsters – because of greed and because of wanting to have all the trappings of rich

32.??????????????? ?They may Develop dependence on alcohol, smoking, drugs, and narcotics

33.??????????????? ?They might become dependent on others for their existence

34.??????????????? ?They Gossip behind the back of others – even those who might be their friends

35.??????????????? ?They Try to show off to cover their lacunas

36.??????????????? ?They Try to please those in power – even if they are wrong

37.??????????????? ?They Try to get attention using any means available to them

38.??????????????? ?In the arguments they try to prove that they are right

39.??????????????? ?They Get into frequent arguments on minor issues

40.??????????????? ?They easily Believe the fake news and fall for propaganda

41.??????????????? ?They may Find it difficult to say no

42.??????????????? ?They might Have a great sense of entitlement without any merit

43.??????????????? ?They feel happy by belittling, demeaning, and insulting others

44.??????????????? ?They Do not accept their mistakes

45.??????????????? ?They Avoid taking risk

46.??????????????? ?They avoid doing anything which may lead to making mistakes and failures

47.??????????????? ?They don’t have any inspiring and motivating dream

48.??????????????? ?They Live a purposeless life flowing with the time passively

49.??????????????? ?They Can be brainwashed easily

50.??????????????? ?They Lack self-identity and self-worth

51.??????????????? ?They Play the victim and have many sob stories

52.??????????????? ?They find it very difficult to identify their - incidents of pride, success, and accomplishments

53.??????????????? ?They are Very rigid and don’t want to learn or change

54.??????????????? ?They May have many negative habits

55.??????????????? ?Their Thinking pattern would be dominantly negative

56.??????????????? ?They always feel envious of other’s success of those who have got it after the struggle

57.??????????????? ?They are generally messy and disorganized

58.??????????????? ?They may lack proper hygiene sense

59.??????????????? ?They Can be selfish and calculating

60.??????????????? ?They have an anger problem - Losers don’t have enough self-control to stay calm when they’re upset

61.??????????????? ?They take their frustrations, irritations, guilt, shame, embarrassment, and anger out on others by lashing out at others - When they are upset

62.??????????????? ?They put you down over minor disagreements

63.??????????????? ?They turn unimportant issues into major fights

64.??????????????? ?They throw temper tantrums when they don’t get their way -or when they don’t get what they want

65.??????????????? ?They are lazy and may procrastinate about important issues

66.??????????????? ?Very rarely you may find them taking initiatives

67.??????????????? ?They may not prepare adequately before an important event – like a job interview or exam etc.

68.??????????????? ?They may try to find how to get the exam paper in advance – Indians will be able to identify this loser trait

69.??????????????? ?A loser won’t prepare ahead of time, and they’ll put off important work until the very last minute

70.??????????????? ?They are over-possessive and suspicious

70 Tips on How to stop being a loser – get rid of failure mindset

1.?? ?Read my 600+ blogs among the 900+ on my two websites for do-it-yourself tips ON ALL the Advice given below and also for developing empowering mindset of winner and champion AND to get rid of any disempowering mindset like a loser or failure mindset

2.?? ?YES, YOU MAY THINK THAT THIS IS TOO MUCH – Please understand that changing an innate disempowering and negative mindset & habits is complex with so many things to work on

3.??? ?But believe me almost all the tips you would be able to implement and apply concurrently

4.?? ?Start cardio, stretch, aerobic, and stretch exercises – every day

5.?? ?Practice multiple breathing exercises – every day

6.?? ?Whenever you feel lost or upset of confused – start moving vigorously, jump, dance

7.?? ?All the above actions - will create a strong foundation for creating a discipline and self-control in your life – without having a disciplined mindset - nothing worthwhile can be accomplished by anyone

8.?? ?Read my blog on How to be a Disciplined person

9.?? ??Identify the big picture – by asking yourself – If you acquire all the skills and habits – what would make you feel like a champion or a winner

10.??????????????? ?Stop showing-off – let your results talk about you – read my blog on his

11.??????????????? ?Identify people who can-not only teach you BUT also can inspire you when you are stuck – build strong relationship with these powerful people

12.??????????????? ?Develop your network with people who are highly successful leaders in their domain and create bonds with them

13.??????????????? ?Ensure that you never compromise on discipline, safety, and quality in your work

14.??????????????? ?Focus on delivering excellence in whatever you do

15.??????????????? ?Experiment – try new things, non-conventional ways, out of box processes

16.??????????????? ?Make mistakes - Accept your mistakes

17.??????????????? ?Learn from your mistakes & failures and move on with your life

18.??????????????? ?Take full responsibility for all your choices, decisions, and actions as well as their consequences

19.??????????????? ??Understand that your problems only you must find ways to solve and take appropriate actions – till you get what you want

20.??????????????? ?Be a proactive action taker – don’t wait for things to happen

21.??????????????? ?Stop playing the victim

22.??????????????? ?Eat healthy, get help to reduce and ultimately get rid of your substance abuse, smoking and drinking etc.

23.??????????????? ?Learn Learn Learn – find what you need to learn to be the best – go and acquire skills, expertise, exposures, experiences, and proficiencies as well as needed qualifications – there is no substitute for this MUST DO ELEMENT OF SUCCESS

24.??????????????? ?Travel widely – learn a different language and learn about different cultures

25.??????????????? ?Learn to identify and Let go of your baggage of shame, guilt, regret and inferiority

26.??????????????? ?Know and accept yourself fully – identifies all your faults, weakness, flaws, lacunae, negative habits and mind-blocks etc.

27.??????????????? ?Identify your self-worth to create self-pride – by identifying your strengths, your positivity, your past wins and the instance of your overcoming serious handicaps

28.??????????????? ?Rig the game in your favor -Become competent -Learn to play to your strengths

29.??????????????? ?Stop comparing yourself with anyone – you are unique

30.??????????????? ?Many times, when we are in a phase where nothing works – accept your current bad phase – BUT – keep working on things that are within your control and keep learning

31.??????????????? ?Learn how to manage your emotions, feelings, depression, anxieties, fears

32.??????????????? ?Learn to manage your feelings of frustration, inadequacies, anger

33.??????????????? ?Audit your people in your inner circle – identify who boost you positively and who pulls you down

34.??????????????? ?Learn ways to manage them – if ignoring, avoiding, and getting rid of them is not possible

35.??????????????? ?Choose to have strongly positive and enthusiastic people in your life and circle – both inner & external

36.??????????????? ?Identify toxic people and learn to manage them OR get rid of them

37.??????????????? ?Stop watching Indian News Channels

38.??????????????? ?Stop believing WhatsApp and other social media fake-toxic news

39.??????????????? ?Never try to impress using false means just to boost your EGO

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