Discern what’s important

Above all, I had learned to distinguish what was important in life and what was not. The important was often a handful of water, sometimes a protected bivouac site, a book, or a conversation.

A friend of mine, desiring to pursue a life of adventure by joining the skydiving community, quit a good job, sold all of his belongings, and moved on to an airport with a couple of duffel bags and a parachute. Today, he has realized his dream. He’s a professional skydiver, married, and living in a decent home close to his dream job-jumping out of airplanes. “I’ll never get rich doing this,” he explains. “But I get to wake up every day knowing that I get to do exactly what I want to do. And even more importantly, my years as a drop-zone bum taught me about what was truly important, and what was not.”

We get attached to our things. We fuss when someone spills soda on the couch, get angry over the slightest ding on our BMW, and make up for lost time with loved ones by bringing them more things.

Look closely at your life. Decide what’s really important to you. What would you genuinely miss, if you didn’t have it? What would you perhaps not even notice, if it was missing from your life? What might you be better off without? Learn to distinguish between the essential and that which you don’t really need.

You might find, like my friend, that you’d be happier with two duffel bags and a dream than you would be with a garage full of clutter that never gets used.?

New York, 10.31.1022