Dirty Feet Fetish

Through the years of discussing fetishes with hundreds of people, I have been exposed to many nuances. Many people have a foot fetish. A lot of people think this is a man's fetish, but many women are attracted to feet. It is not all about pretty women's feet. Fetishes are peculiar created from numerous events that impact a person. 

When I first started on the internet, there was a man that wanted to talk about my dirty feet. I did not understand this fascination. Raised in the south, so spending my Summer days barefoot was a regular thing for me. I had never really thought about my feet being dirty other than there was always soap and towels by the back door. If you came into a southern home with dirty feet, there was going to be some screaming. 

This man wanted to talk about my dirty feet, and I struggled to understand what the fascination was. We talked for a long time about different aspects of his fetish. I was curious, and he enjoyed having someone to talk to that took an interest. The events were many years ago, but he was a professional upper-middle class. The dirty foot fetish came from a girl older than he was. She would sit on her front porch with those dirt-smudged feet up on the rail. He had been at the cusp of sexuality, and she was his first crush. There was one day that she noticed him with her girlfriends. The older girls called him over to them, and they picked on his fascination. All the girls had surrounded him and pushed their dirty feet into his face. This pack of older girls enjoyed forcing this skinny boy into their version of the submission. The incident impacted him through the years. 

The girls were cruel in how they treated him over the summer months. He would try and avoid them, but they acted as a pack. The man explained the girls would catch him when he tried to run through an alley. He would be pushed around before ending up on the ground. Then the girls would start shoving their nasty feet in his face. The more he fought, the worse the situation became. Every interaction between them would always cumulate with him sucking their feet clean. The taste of the dirt stuck with him mentally far past his running to brush his teeth clean. 

The cruelty of these girls finding their power over males did not end with dirt. As a group, they would find ways beyond just normal filth to make him shed tears. One girl liked to step on food then make him eat it off. Others found things far more disgusting to step on or in. 

At first, it was humiliating, and he told no one about what these young women had done. As the years progressed, something happened to him emotionally. The events went from a horrid nightmare to something that turned him on. I spoke with him after many years of rethinking all the actions of that fateful day. 

He told me that it started with them yelling at him; all the girls formed a circle. The afternoon was scorching hot, as was common in the late days of August. At first, he wanted to run but could not because each girl pushed him back into the center. He told me that he was skinny and slow to grow into the muscular man he became with maturity. While his logical mind looked back on the events of the summer, he knew the girls were only bullies in a group. After the summer ended, the girls would treat him with an odd kindness. Those few weeks impacted his life in ways that few other events. 

By the time he left for new adult adventures, there was a part of his mind that locked away those sultry summer days of terror. Then he went back to a reunion to meet with several girls that forced him to worship their dirty feet—the night after that meeting brought all the memories back to him in a rush of emotions. These emotions turned his world topsy turvy for a few months. He found himself wanting to relive things that had made him cry. 

The woman he currently dated would never indulge in his fantasy. To them, he was suffering from events that made them uncomfortable. That was the reason why he reached out to talk to a woman that could understand or, at the minimum, listen. 

Fetishes are often used by people to heal from traumatic events. It is common for a person to change a hurtful situation into something the mind can manipulate. I am not a person who understands the complexities of mental health, but I know this is common. Historically most fetishes are well documented. As our technology moved forward, so did several fetishes. The internet allowed people to reach out to others that shared or at least understood the quirks of human sexuality. My initial years on the internet sparked a curiosity of wanting to explore the human side of different fetishes. 

Dirty feet as a fetish may seem odd, and in some ways, it is odd. Fetishes are individuals in the presentation. Humans need to categorize all aspects of our world. We want to package things up in neat arrangements. When it comes to fetishes, a category only works for an overview. Each person with a fetish is unique, and what drives that desire is specific.