It is a difficult topic to decide whether the generosity of childbirth or upbringing is great.
It is a complex topic to decide whether the generosity of childbirth or upbringing is excellent.
The protagonist Bai Ge said that sometimes family does not need blood, and the kindness of parenting will be rewarded with her whole life.
The general story of the article is the story of a girl who was abandoned and adopted by her parents. In the picture, we can see her lying in a cardboard box in the snowy winter, Biting cold, bone-chilling in 1997.
In this cold winter, everyone gathered here to watch the fun, but no one gave a helping hand, but only this old man stepped forward and adopted a young white pigeon. However, their lives are poor and difficult, but the old man has never given up feeding the pigeons. During the day, the old man does farm work and labor, and at night, he picks up rubbish and saves some money to go to school for Bai Ge.
Twenty-four years later, the helpless, weak, and poor child at the time was able to grow into an independent strong woman with a net worth of over 100 million because of the blessing of her adoptive father.
But when her career was very prosperous, she chose to close the company and bought an RV to travel with her adoptive father.
How to make such a decision suddenly, we have to start from the beginning.
1》BaiGe was adopted by the elderly man.
That winter afternoon in 1997, people in the village gathered around a little girl to watch the fun. At this time, an old man stepped forward, only to see a girl wrapped in a quilt in a box and crying. People just watched the fun, but no one wanted to step up and lend a helping hand.
In March, the weather was not warm yet, it was still very cold, and the wind is biting. Surrounded by the crowd, the little girl cried heartbroken, her face flushed red.
Seeing this, the old man didn't have time to think about it. He hurried forward, took off his coat, and covered the child while observing whether there were any tokens or clues left on the child's body, but unfortunately, nothing was found.
It was getting darker and colder, people gradually dispersed, and the old man did not wait for her parents for a long time. So, he decided to bring the child home.
On the second day, the old man went to the village committee to inform and ask them to help inquire about the whereabouts of the child's parents.?
Days passed by, but the whereabouts of the parents of the child were still not found.
The situation of son preference in the village is very serious. Many families choose to abandon girls because of too many children or family difficulties.
But when the old man decided to adopt the girl, he was 50 years old and had never had children. But in the past few days with the little girl, "even with hardships, I still want to raise the girl."
2》Raising a child
Raising a child is not a very simple thing, maybe we think it will be very simple, as a mother, I am very aware of the difficulty of raising a child.
The old man didn't know how to make milk powder, and he didn't know how to change clothes with the child, and the family was relatively poor, so most of them borrowed old clothes from the neighbors, and asked the neighbors to help him teach him how to make milk powder and how to make her?
?not cry. This made his otherwise peaceful life full of color but also made him chaotic.
But he is happy because he has concerns.
So, in addition to his daily work, Zhang began to pick up garbage, herd sheep, and farm the land... He didn't pick any jobs that could make money, he just immersed himself in doing it. In his heart, as long as BaiGe doing well. It is worth, it no matter how much he suffers.
3》BaiGe grew up
Time passed by day by day, Brother Bai grew up slowly, became a middle school student, became a high school student, and the rebellious period followed.
We all know that we grow up to be picky about a lot of things.
Bai Ge feels that she is different from her classmates. She only wears old clothes back and forth. When school is over, other people's parents wear beautiful clothes to pick them up, while her father is disgraced and picks up garbage by the roadside.
After that, the old man never showed up at the girl's school or around her during the day. Never pick up trash during the day again. Instead, he worked hard during the day and then went to pick up garbage at night, which made the old man's body overwhelmed.
Pigeon also knew the difficulties and hardships of her adoptive father.
All kinds of difficulties in life have tempered the strong will of Dove. She also had a conflict with her adoptive father.
Soon, Bai Dove was graduating from high school, and she knew that college tuition was very high for them.
In the rural areas at that time, high schools were not popularized either. The old man worked hard at night to pick up rubbish and dry goods during the day. But can only eat steamed bread soaked in water. All his money was given to the white dove.
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Later, after Bai Ge knew about it, she secretly made her plan to stop going to university. She told her adoptive father that she didn't want to go to school, and then wanted to go to the city to work hard.
In fact, the old man knew very well that the white dove felt bad for him.
4》Start a business
In order to improve her life, Bai Ge has done many jobs, such as a shopping guide, clothing, makeup, street stalls, and snacks.
Soon, her body couldn't take it anymore, and she became seriously ill. In order to cure the disease, the adoptive father took out the family's few savings and took Baige to Beijing to visit famous doctors.
They had to live in the basement during the treatment because they had no money.
Because they don't have money, they can't do the surgery either. Just go back home and rest.
Bai Ge felt very guilty. All the actions of her adoptive father are telling her that if she has a clear conscience, it's good to work hard.
Since then, Bai Ge has made up her mind to take good care of her body and work hard.?
She cheered up, and slowly, she saved a sum of money and renovated the three houses in her family. It improves the life of heavy rain outside and light rain in the house.
Bai Ge heard that his adoptive father would often be bullied by others in his hometown, so Bai Ge took him to the city where she worked, but they had just renovated their hometown, and they had no money.?
Just rent a small house. So she often hinted to herself in her heart that she must let them live a good life, and let those who bullied them in the past dare not bully them again.
With the accompany and encouragement of her adoptive father, Bai Ge has more motivation to act, and her business is getting bigger and bigger
5》Starting an unknown journey
The improvement in her career allowed her to set up a studio, buy a car, and then have her first store and second store. . . Finally got a small team.
She bought a big house in the city, bought a car, and then set up a company.?
After a few years of hard work, she accumulated a lot of money.
However, the adoptive father did not want to be a burden to Bai Ge, he still picked up garbage as before, and lived frugally.?
For so many years, Bai Ge has understood the good intentions of her adoptive father, so she also accepts such a father calmly.?
No matter how the outside world looks at it, she feels that he is her best father.
So, no matter how busy her business is, she takes time out every year to travel with her adoptive father.
Unexpectedly, the relapse of the old disease made her busy life and pressed the pause button.?
This time, the condition is more serious. So she lies in the ward and finally had time to take a good rest and take care of her body, but suddenly found that her father, who was busy with herself, didn't know when he was getting old.?
A lot slower with actions.
Bai Ge suddenly realized that his father was over 70 years old. And she is still immersed in her busy work, but how many days does she have to get along with her father?
She is also very clear that although she has bought a house and a car over the years, her father's real happy days are when they get along day and night.
In 2021, Bai Ge really shut down the company, bought an RV, and took her father to leave, starting an unknown journey.
Summary:
Therefore, in the story of the white pigeon and the old man, blood relationships and kindness are no longer important. The important thing is to seize the limited time and spend the best time with the people you love the most.
You raised me to grow up, and I accompany you to grow old. Although it is rare, the so-called family relationship should be like this.