Difficult times test us truly

Well the whole universe is planned and everything which happens with us is also decided by universe..this is still a mystery that is it predefined and we are just playing our roles or we can change it with our good deeds.But one thing in which I believe is that universe is really surprising and it takes our test only to make us better for facing that situation and being strong enough to face the test. After all everything happens for a good reason so whenever universe takes our test we must patiently search for the solution of getting out of that situation and not losing hope.

And one more thing imagine a world without the hard times..if there was a world without hard times we would have never really enjoyed the happiest times or successful times of our life because that moment would have become ordinary for us..what makes that happy and successful moments precious are the hard times and struggling times we face in life…So let’s always try to give our best in this test of life.

Universe tests us by letting harsh things happen to us. life IS a roller coaster ride in fact. When you are happy with someone, content , everything is going well and all of a sudden its gone, as if it were a dream. Many times we have to let go our own emotions and feelings for the sake of others. Those are the hard times. Sometimes we cry and talk to our pillow at 2 am. Those are the hard times. Sometimes we keep looking at the phone and wait for that one single text message, which we know will never come. Those are the hard times.

Sometimes we treat our friends badly for that one other person, it hurts and those are the hard times. Sometimes we work, hard, harder just to show to the world that we are no less, and we fail. Those are the hard times. Sometimes we want a thing and hurt our parents. Those are the hard times. Sometimes we know that we should let go, but cannot. Those are the hard times. Sometimes we want to stay, but the other wants to let go, those are the hard times.

I failed in something which I was confident of easily overcoming. It actually could have been a big step towards my dreams. But here I am sitting now, feeling ashamed of my failures. So right now I have two choices, either to accept it and keep sulking about how life is unfair to me OR to keep this feeling of failure as a burning flame inside me and use it as a fuel to realize my dreams. I could keep feeling sorry for myself or I could work my ass off to make sure I don’t face this situation again. You see there is great impetus in failures. For some souls, such hard times are just a customary melancholy of life but for others, these are masters who will guide them in the path ahead.

There is a saying that “Life is how you make it” and I strongly believe that. Two things come into play. One is how life treats you and the other one being how you treat life. It’s the latter one that makes all the difference. No matter what situation you are facing, there will always be an other side to it, the silver lining. The same situations you are calling hard times will be opportunities for some other person. So don’t think that whatever you are seeing right now is all that is there to it. It is in the most harshest of conditions in which carbon transforms into diamond. And you my friend are that diamond.

Pick any great people from the history and read about their lives. Read about their formative years. You’ll soon realize that it were the hard times those people faced which molded their personalities and made them the people they were. The universe does not test us by letting hard times happen to us but instead universe helps us by giving us opportunities for self growth. I choose to see the same situation in a different light. This choice is what makes a man powerful. Remember that “The hardest of situations, often yield the most beautiful of outcomes”

Sometimes we dream and it is broken by someone, those are the hard times. Sometimes we dream and don’t let the world touch that dream. That is the ultimate hard time. And if you survive that hard time, you will surely bloom to be a beautiful person. Experience is what makes us strong, right? So keep learning through those hard times, so that the next time you face a similar situation, you would say to yourself “come and I will embrace you and make you a wonderful part of my life” Life would become a lot easier. Cheers!