Did you try to change yourself and not succeed in it? 5 crucial principles for successful change
Most people who try to change themselves fail. Change is not easy. Change is challenging. Most people go blindly into change. They are not prepared for it. If you want to successfully change anything, you need to learn and apply 5 crucial principles for it.
5 CRUCIAL PRINCIPLES FOR SUCCESSFUL CHANGE
1)KNOW THE MISSION OF YOUR CHANGE- If you don’t know why you want to change yourself and what is the goal of the change, you will fail. You need to have a clear goal for change. That goal should be specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and timely. Without clarity in your goal, you will wander, waste your time, and be frustrated by repeating failures.
2)YOUR INNER INVENTORY- Before you approach a journey, you need to know what are your qualities. Without competence, knowledge, skills, and the right attitude, even a normal task can be difficult. If you don’t know who you are, you will never become whom you want to be.
3)WHERE DO YOU INVEST OR WASTE YOUR TIME?-?Time is an important resource. You can invest it or waste it. If you want to change yourself, you need to know how to invest your time. Prioritization is important when you invest your time. Do the things that are significant for your change, everything else abandons. Schedule every day. Use active questions and a diary for measuring how you invest your time.
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4)CONSISTENCY- You can’t work a few days on your change, and demand high results, that is impossible. You can’t also live a few days chaotic life and few days be organized and disciplined. That will not lead you to change, that will lead you to frustrations. If you want to change yourself, you need to be consistent.
5)ACTION, ACTION, ACTION- The key element for any change is action. Don’t be afraid of mistakes, they are a normal part of any endeavor. Be afraid not to try. If you make a mistake, don’t be frustrated, that is normal. Use feedback, learn the lesson, improve something in your approach, and you will succeed. Without action, you can’t change yourself.
#BONUS -?CHANGE IS AN ONGOING PROCESS- Change is not one deed, it is a process. Every day is important, use your time, work hard, and results will come.
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