Did You Ever Consider If This Was Your Version of Success Before You Started Living It?

Let's conjure up some thoughts about this wild ride called 'success'. Ever wondered if the success ladder we're climbing is even ours to begin with??

Crafting Our Own Success

We're often rooted in a success narrative that's not even ours. You know the drill - the high-flying job, the flashy title, the big bucks. But at what cost? Our health? Our joy? Nah, that's not the deal we signed up for.?

Expanding on the idea of crafting our own success, it's important to delve into the psycho-educational aspect of our development. From childhood, we internalise the beliefs and norms of those around us, which often dictates our understanding of success. This process of internalisation continues into adulthood, where we might unconsciously operate based on these ingrained beliefs, rather than developing a strong sense of independent self.?

To truly craft our success, we need to challenge these inherited narratives and consciously create our own definitions that resonate with our true desires and values. This requires a deep, introspective journey to understand what genuinely fulfills us, separate from societal or external expectations.

Stepping away from societal expectations about success can be downright terrifying. We're wired from a young age to fear being different, with the threat of rejection or abandonment lurking in the shadows. It's like we're programmed to stick to the script, but who wrote it anyway? Let me tell you, I've been there, facing those same fears. But here's the deal – stepping up and out is where the magic happens.?

It's where we break free, where we craft a life that's truly ours. So, let's be brave together. Let's redefine success, embrace our unique paths, and who knows, we might just lead a revolution in how success is perceived. Let's be the warriors of our own stories, shall we?

The Five Provocative Questions

Alright, corporate warriors and change makers, let's not just skim over these questions like another item on our never-ending to-do lists. I'm calling you out – yes, you! This isn't about just reading; it's about diving deep. So, stop right there. Grab a pen, a notebook, or even a napkin, and actually think about these questions. Write down your thoughts, draw them out, whatever it takes.?

Do it now, because let's face it, for busy women like us, 'later' is a mythical land that never arrives. Don't let these questions be another unchecked box. Let them be the spark that lights up your path to true success. You've got this!

What’s My Jam?????

What really gets you out of bed in the morning? Beyond the paycheck and prestige, what work makes you feel like you're flourishing?

Who’s Writing My Story? ???

Are you living out someone else’s dream? Time to grab that pen and start scripting your own saga.

Is My Grind Killing My Vibe?

Sure, we're all about hard work, but is your current hustle robbing you of your spark?

What’s My Real Trophy?

Is it that corner office, or something more expansive like time with family, travel, or personal growth?

How Do I Define ‘Enough’?

At what point do you say, “Yep, that’s my cup full”?

Adopting vs Creating Success Narratives

We've all been there, wearing someone else's version of success like an ill-fitting suit. It's time to ditch that and get into something more us. Let's stop wasting time living a narrative that doesn't bring us joy or align with our core values.

Let's get real about the time we have. If you're cruising towards a 70-year lifespan, how many days are left on your clock? Now, here's the kicker – how many of those precious days are you willing to burn on someone else's version of success??

Picture your final moments, your last breath. Will you be high-fiving yourself for living a life designed by someone else? Doubt it. It's high time to recalibrate, to start living a life that's not just a tick in someone else’s checkbox but a loud, proud statement of your own version of success.

Ladies, let's remember, creativity is our superpower! There's immense joy waiting in getting creative with the design of our own lives. Harness your free spirit, fun-loving nature, and craft your life with bravery and flair. Embrace this chance to apply your innate creativity to your personal and professional journey. The canvas of your life is yours to paint – with vibrant, bold strokes that reflect who you truly are. Let’s not just live life, but create an artwork that is uniquely and unapologetically us.

Accountability: It's on Us

Let’s face it, if we don’t pause and reassess our path, we can't moan about the world being too tough. We need to have the guts to question and reshape our narrative. It’s about being self-aware and conscious in our leadership.

Craft your success story with grace, grit, and a touch of our own magic. It’s not just about breaking the ceiling; it’s about redefining the building. Be the warrior of your own success and lead the charge for an alternative, more fulfilling narrative.?

Remember, success is not just about conquering the corporate eco-system; it’s about planting our own garden where we can truly flourish. Be your own rebel for your own cause by redefining success on your terms.

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